Inspire Naughty Ideas and Sexy Desires With This Erotic Couples Game
Have you ever seen a picture or object that reminded you of sex? They’re all over the place. When you let your mind run wild and set your erotic imagination free, you’ll begin to see sexually suggestive images in many everyday items you pass by each day. Nature itself can serve up many erotic surprises when you look for them. This provides a great opportunity for a romantic game for couples that also gives you a reason to get out and enjoy the outdoors together.
Start by going for a walk together in a natural setting. Then, challenge each other to find as many erotic shapes or images as you can – anything that remotely reminds you of sex. This will help you focus on the natural beauty. You’d be amazed how many details you pick out when sex is on your mind. Also, your playfully naughty thoughts are like mental foreplay that’ll turn you on more and more as you play. You’ll be racing to your bedroom when you get home.
Make your erotic adventure more interesting by keeping score. Agree on who found the most interesting scene or who finds the most to declare a winner. The winner receives a sexual favor or gets to play out a favorite fantasy. For this sexy game, all you need is a dirty mind. Gaze at the clouds, notice interesting knots in the trees, search out insects mating, forage for ideas in the flowers or uncover penis-shaped mushrooms. Boulders, crevices, leaves and even tracks in the sand can trigger naughty ideas and arousing associations.
Even if other people are walking around, you can secretly exchange clues to what you’re thinking. You’ll smile with a naughty grin as you point out interesting sites to each other.
You can even take digital pictures of the sexy scenes you discover and use these in a different type of bedroom game when you get home. Randomly pick one of the pictures you captured and use it to creatively come up with a sex play activity. Whoever comes up with the best idea related to your picture gets to enjoy it. You’ll be amazed how images of natural erotic art can inspire your lust for each other and increase your desire for great sex.
For example, the feature image above shows two flowers from our yard. Even alone, the resemblance to certain erogenous zones is hard to overlook. Together, your erotic imagination gravitates to a single taboo, albeit very natural, sexual activity. With this picture as inspiration, let’s consider a few anal sex and anal foreplay ideas.
Greek Tickler
Similar to a French Tickler, let’s dub this one a Greek Tickler – the tickler part is on the rear end, too. I have seen a number of sex toys intended for double penetration of both the vagina and anus but I don’t recall seeing any with tickler nubs. Butt plugs can be used as foreplay to prepare for anal intercourse or even kept in while having regular vaginal sex, oral sex or during other foreplay activities. Anal play is a naughty pleasure both women and men can enjoy regardless of sexual orientation. Remember to use lots of lubrication with your anal toys and be very gentle. All anal toys should have a flared base to ensure they do not get lost inside.
Double Entry
Many women fantasize about being completely filled up – both vaginally and anally at the same time. Whether you have a spare cock on hand or not, you can fulfill her fantasy with a penis double. A dildo, vibrator or butt plug are quick substitutes when you need to make a double entry (even accountants can do it – couldn’t resist).
Bud Sex
Just a little play on words, but Butt Sex can be enjoyed by heterosexual men too. It has also been discovered that prostate massage via anal play may actually have health benefits. Prostate massage can create very intense orgasms by itself or combined with fellatio or a hand job. There are even sex toys specially designed as prostate massagers for men to be used during masturbation or sex with a partner. Consider experimenting with intercourse while having a butt plug inserted for an even more explosive orgasm. Guys that allow their girlfriend or wife to penetrate them anally may also help encourage them to explore and enjoy anal intercourse too. Mutual anal play can definitely spice up your relationship. Check out this Bend Over Boyfriend article for some additional information. If you are interested in strap-on role reversal sex play, take a look at the Feeldoe or Nexus double dildos. There are also double anal dildos that can be used for a little cheek-to-cheek action.
Anal Artist
The anus is highly concentrated with nerves. Even if you do not intend to indulge in anal intercourse, creatively stimulating this sensitive region can be extremely pleasurable. Imagine painting the anus with a brush as though it were a delicate flower. Trace each petal lightly with a dry artist brush, just tickling an outline of your masterpiece. Then add some lube to your brush and stroke the petals again with a nice smooth gliding motion. You could even use body paints for a visual delight. Choose various types of artist brushes and swirling, stroking techniques to create new sensations in your erotic art world.
Anal Intercourse
Intercourse does mean communication, and anal sex definitely requires it. The anal tissues are extremely delicate and can be torn. Anal intercourse can actually be a more intimate sexual activity because it does require a deeper level of trust and sensitivity. When engaging in anal sex, go very, very slow at first and use lots of water-based lubrication. Relaxation is critical to great anal sex. Stress-related tension may build up in the ass making anal play less pleasurable. More foreplay will help your lover relax so that they can fully enjoy the intimately erotic experience of anal stimulation. See Anal Sex From A Female Perspective for more insights – there are related links to more of her articles on anal sex that are very well written.
- You may not have seen many articles discussing the possible “mess” associated with anal sex. In general, fecal matter is not stored in the rectum, but some may remain. Use a towel beneath you as a precaution. Porn stars performing anal sex scenes use an anal douche before the shoot to fully clean out the rectum. Again, the need to communicate helps in the preparation so that no one is anxious or feeling dirty.
- In the past, it was recommended to use desensitizing creams or lubes to “reduce the pain” of anal intercourse. In my opinion, this is extremely bad. First of all, anal sex should not be painful at all. With proper foreplay, anal stimulation and relaxation, the sphincter muscles will relax and easily accommodate a penis or dildo. You will want to feel stretching and fullness as part of your pleasure but definitely not discomfort. Second, pain is a warning that something could be tearing and desensitizing creams will suppress these important signals. You may even engage in rougher sex when you are not ready for it, causing more damage. Third, the point of anal sex is to experience mutual pleasure. If you desensitize or numb the anal nerves, you also reduce the sense of pleasure you can receive from them. This note also applies to alcohol and drug use. If you are engaging in anal sex just for the guy’s benefit and not your own pleasure, too – don’t.
- Experiment with different positions to discover one that feels best. Doggie style, spooning, woman on top and missionary are a few variations that offer their own benefits. Also, consider the psychological aspects of the different positions since they can add to the thrill of anal intercourse.
- Always wear a condom for anal intercourse, even in a committed, monogamous relationship.
If you’re a beginner to anal sex or do it often, check out this Anal Toys and Anal Pleasure article for ideas on how to more fully enjoy this taboo yet natural and very intimate sexual experience.
What other sexy ideas can you think of related to the picture above?
Please leave a comment and describe the sexy images you discovered and how you interpreted them for your erotic play.
For more detailed information about anal pleasuring for couples, check out these two books:
- The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
- Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners
Stimulate Your Naughty Desires and …
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