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  • Dating Questions About Kinky Sex Play

    Dating Questions About Kinky Sex Play

    Dating questions about kinky sex are not necessarily appropriate to ask about on your first few dates. However as your relationship gets more intimate, these types of sex questions will help you discover how sexually compatible you are. Since a good sexual connection is essential for a long lasting relationship, it’s critical that you find out as soon as possible if you’ll both be sexually satisfied. Discovering that you’re erotic interests and desires are incompatible after investing time, money, effort and emotions is such a waste. And if you end up getting stuck in a sex starved marriage, it can be even worse.

    Here are some sexy questions to ask your partner about their sexual preferences. Start an intimate conversation and explore new ways to spice up your sex life. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions on our Love & Sex Questions for Couples website. These have been selected to help you discover your erotic preferences and the boundaries of your sexual comfort zones.

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    We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

    What kinds of activities do you consider to be kinky?

    When you talk about out of the ordinary erotic activities, you’ll discover how you each feel about various pleasure possibilities. Keep in mind that thinking something is kinky doesn’t mean it’s totally forbidden. In fact, the taboo nature of certain erotic pleasures can make it more fun when you’re both feeling a little naughty. Knowing what’s kinky in your relationship just means you avoid it for normal lovemaking, while keeping it in reserve for special times together.

    What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?

    How we develop our erotic desires is a complex psychological process formed from all our experiences. It can feel scary sharing deeply personal details about what turns you on. But, as you explore and begin to appreciate your unique erotic personalities, you’ll be able to inspire each other to shed inhibitions and reach new heights of passion together.

    How kinky or sexually adventurous do you feel you are and why?

    Sex doesn’t always have to be romantic, sensual and loving. It can and should be a little wild, naughty and fun too. For two people in love, sex can be a life long erotic adventure filled with all sorts of exciting and stimulating sexual experiences. You want to know that your partner is open and willing to explore how thrilling sex can be even if it means getting a little dirty or messy.

    What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?

    Fetish play can be a fun form of kinky sex that you can experiment with to spice up your sex life. Note that there is a big difference between normal sexual turn ons and fetishes. This can lead to relationship problems unless you have compatible erotic preferences. If you do discover your partner has a very intense fetish that you’re not comfortable with, you need to evaluate this information carefully.

    What are some kinky activities you would like to try and what are off limits for you?

    It can be exciting to discover how sexually curious, mischievous and adventurous your partner can be. You also want to find out what sorts of inhibitions you each have. Note that inhibitions may just be due to sexual inexperience, lack of knowledge or even misinformation about certain sexual practices. By having intimate conversations about wild or kinky sex ideas, you’ll get a sense of how your sexual relationship will develop.

    Would you consider yourself more of an exhibitionist or voyeur and why?

    Talking about your sexual preferences for exhibitionism or voyeurism can lead to some fun ways for improving your sex life. You can take advantage of your desires to watch or be watched to increase your arousal. Use it like mental foreplay. Think of what kinds of roleplay scenarios or hot sex games you can play that give you both a sense of naughty pleasure. You can roleplay sexual fantasies and make a porn together or even create masturbation videos for your lover.

    Take the time to ask each other fun questions that get you thinking and talking about all kinds of sexy new erotic ideas. You may just come up with a few to try tonight.

    Frisky Foreplay Kinky Sex Games

    Once you’ve had enough talking and want to get down to some kinky sex action, check out our book Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games and spice up your adult play time. It comes with hundreds of foreplay ideas for women and men organized into six intensity levels. The sexy ideas range from warm and loving to wild and kinky. The object of this hot sex game for couples is to see how kinky you’re willing to be while enjoying a range of sensual pleasures along the way.

    For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

    Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available)). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

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  • Intimate Questions: Explore Kinky Sex Ideas

    Intimate Questions: Explore Kinky Sex Ideas

    Discussing and experimenting with some kinky sex activities like bondage requires a lot of trust in your partner. While the erotic fear factor may add to the erotic thrill, you definitely want to eliminate any real dangers both physical and emotional. So learn as much as you can together using books or other information resources so you can play safe. Use the questions for couples in this article to get your partner talking about new ways to play together in and out of the bedroom. Start an intimate conversation and explore creative ways to spice up your sex life.

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    Here are some intimate questions to ask your partner to see how they feel about various types of kinky sex play. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions on our Love and Sex Questions for Couples website. These have been selected to help you discover your erotic preferences and the boundaries of your sexual comfort zones.

    We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

    How do you feel about experimenting with bondage?

    Bondage play can arouse very intense feelings. By transferring control, the emotional and physical dynamics of sex change. This can be exciting and fun or extremely distressing. Ask your partner how they feel about experimenting with bondage. Get a sense of how they may react in different scenarios. To help explore your individual desires, talk about who would be dominant or submissive, different sexual roleplay fantasies to act out and various restraint techniques or devices.

    Note: For beginners to bondage play, check out the Bondage Bed Sheet – it’s a special bed sheet and velcro restraint kit that quickly transforms your bed into a bondage play area. The ankle and wrist cuffs are much safer than ropes or ties. They can also be quickly and easily moved to permit a wide variety of bondage positions. The velcro attachments hold firm yet allows you to get free if required.

    What kinds of kinky role playing games would you like to try?

    Sexual role playing can be a fun way to perk up your passion. Ask your lover about various erotic scenarios they might like to role play. Adult pretend games could be inspired by your sexual fantasies or may just be something sexy you’ve seen in a steamy movie or read about in a spicy novel. As you talk about different role play ideas, you will naturally start planning how to act out your sexy scenarios. It doesn’t have to be elaborate but you could get costumes and various other accessories to make it more realistic. For inspiration, check out our book 123 Frisky Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Roleplay Ideas: Dare to Play Naughty Sexy Scenarios for Couples. A Lesbian version is also available.

    How do you feel about ass play and anal pleasuring?

    Anal sex is a forbidden pleasure enjoyed by both men and women of all sexual orientations. The anal region is a very sensitive erogenous zone rich in nerve endings. Anal play can be extremely stimulating and intensely pleasurable for both of you. But not everyone is willing to explore this part of the body for various reasons. By talking about various types of anal pleasuring activities, you can explore your individual desires and reservations about this sensitive subject.

    What forms of BDSM play have you heard of and how do you feel about them?

    People engage in a wide range of erotic practices for sexual pleasure. Although you may believe some of your secret desires are out of the ordinary, they may actually be more common than you think. Many couples keep their seemingly deviant desires secret without even realizing that their partner has similar cravings. When you know each other’s deepest erotic urges and discover compatible interests, you can satisfy both of your sexual needs together.

    How do you feel about role reversal and gender play?

    Being kinky sometimes involves playing with social conventions and behaviour expectations. Sensitive subjects like gender play and sexual stereo types can be exciting to mess with. Role reversal can be as simple as switching from an assertive or dominant role to a more passive or submissive role in the bedroom. Gender play takes role reversal a little further. It can even involve roleplaying different sexual orientations. Add a gender twist to your sex life and explore your wild side. For inspiration, check out this erotic story: Kinky New Marriage Vows: First Time Forbidden Pleasures.

    What sorts of pain play would you like to experiment with?

    It may seem weird but pain play during sex can be erotically stimulating both for the person giving it and the one receiving it. Kinky sex ideas involving pain as pleasure include sensual spanking, light biting, scratching or hair pulling. More advanced erotic pain practices might involve hot wax, nipple clamps, floggers, paddles and even piercing needles. For these more extreme erotic practices, learn as much as you can about it so you can play safe. Even if actual pain is not something you desire, try reading some BDSM erotica together and enjoy it in your sexual fantasies.

    Start an intimate conversation with sexy questions to spice up your love life. Take the time to ask each other fun questions that get you thinking and talking about all kinds of sexy new erotic ideas. You might come up with a few that you’ll want to try out tonight.

    For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

    Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. All the sex questions in the book are for fun and for play – leave the serious questions for some other time. Whether you’re curled up next to each other or talking on the phone, start a sexy conversation today and see where it leads. When you feel more comfortable talking about sex together, you’ll feel much more comfortable enjoying sex too.

    We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

    Stimulate Your Naughty Desires and …
    Enjoy Even Better Sex!

    To help spice up your relationship even more, we’ve made a few dirty truth or dare books availble on Amazon:

    Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.

    Sealed with a Kiss