Together Tonight

Yes, No, Maybe for couples: a private way to find out what you both want tonight.

What Is Together Tonight?

Asking for something new out loud can feel risky. Together Tonight takes the risk out of it. One of you opens a round, the app rolls a short mix of ideas, and you each answer Yes, No or Maybe without seeing each other’s answers. Then the app shows only what you both want. Anything either of you said No to is never shown, so nobody has to ask out loud and nobody is turned down to their face.

How It Works

Step 1: Open a Round

Tap Desire a Connection? and choose who’s starting. Add up to five ideas of your own if you like, then tap Roll for Ideas. The app mixes 15 ideas from gentle and romantic to a little bolder, so every round has something easy and something new. Turn on Explore More to add a few things to talk over, look up or shop for together.

Step 2: Answer Privately

Ideas appear one at a time, so nobody can scan the list and back out early. Answer each one Yes, Maybe or No. Where an idea works either way round, you can swap who does what.

Step 3: Pass the Phone or Send a Picture

Sitting together? Hand your phone over. Apart, or prefer your own screens? Send the round as a picture in Messages. Your answers travel hidden inside the image, encoded with the couple password you both set, and your partner opens it in Together Tonight. Choose the picture that carries it: the Yes/No/Maybe die, one of 23 romantic scenes, or a photo of your own.

Step 4: See Only the Matches

Ideas you both said Yes to are tonight’s choices: pick one, or do both. One idea with a Maybe in it is offered as a maybe, if you feel like stretching a little. Your individual answers are never shown, only the matches.

Step 5: Enjoy, and Remember

Set a reminder, mark how it went (We Did It, Skipped or Again Sometime), and send the result back so you both keep it. Later, Blast from the Past skips the answering and picks tonight from ideas you’ve already matched.

Yes, No, Maybe

• Yes means tonight. Two Yes answers make a match.
• Maybe means open to it, not keen tonight. A Yes and a Maybe is offered as a maybe.
• No means not tonight, not never. Your partner never learns what you said No to, and the idea can come back another time.

Features

• Over 1,100 built-in ideas across kissing, touch, massage, settings, role-play, promises and more, mixed across six hidden levels
• Your own ideas written the way you want them done; they come back in later rounds and are answered like any other
• Explore More topics to talk over, look up or shop for together
• Pass-and-play or picture sending through Messages
• Your choice of picture: the die, 23 romantic scenes or your own photo
• Reminders and gentle nudges that never reveal anything on the lock screen
• History and Blast from the Past to revisit ideas you’ve already matched
• Save and resume: rounds save as you go
• For every couple: a man and a woman, two men or two women; ideas that clearly don’t fit are left out
• Naughty Words shown in full or playfully masked with hearts
• iPhone and iPad, portrait and landscape

Privacy First

There are no accounts, no servers, no ads and no tracking of any kind. Your settings, ideas and history stay on your devices. When you send a round, its details are encoded inside the picture using your shared couple password: a convenience that keeps the contents from being casually read, not a secure-messaging guarantee.

For full details, see our Privacy Policy.

Adults Only

Together Tonight is designed for consenting adults in a relationship. Many ideas include intimate and sensual themes. Every idea is a suggestion, never an instruction: answer No to anything that doesn’t fit your relationship or comfort level. For full details, see our Terms of Use.

Get Together Tonight

One-time purchase for iPhone and iPad. No subscriptions, no in-app purchases, no ads.

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