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How to Get in The Mood With Romantic Foreplay
Lights, Sound, Action
Set the Mood for Hot Lovemaking!

Does your sex life involve quietly performing the same routine in the dark night after night? Rather than sex being just a physical act, there are some easy ways to add excitement to your sex play. The sensual experience of making love together can be greatly enhanced by engaging all your senses. Every one of your five senses contributes to your mood to some degree. By setting the scene for your romantic or sexy encounter you can create an atmosphere for loving, sensual pleasure. Relaxing or exciting, sights, sounds and scents have the power to stimulate your most potent sex organ – your mind. So, come out of the dark and experience sex in a whole new light.

You can use various types of lighting and sound to creatively enhance your love life. By mixing and matching these two ingredients, you can spice up your sex play with an erotic and emotional flavour. Even subtle visual and aural elements can turn a good sex session into an absolutely fantastic lovemaking experience.

When watching a movie together, consider how the lighting and sound sets the tone for the action. From sultry and steamy to pulse pounding intensity, combinations of lighting and sound can create a totally magical experience. You don’t need a big budget to produce erotically charged sex scenes. With a few ideas and a little imagination, you can easily make your lover feel like a star in your very own sex play. Rather than hiding yourselves quietly in the dark, discover each other and creatively direct sensational sex scenes together.

Mood Light

As mentioned, lighting affects our moods and therefore our ultimate enjoyment of sex. The type, color, intensity and design of the light source can excite or relax with many erotic variations in between. Both men and women are visual creatures and are aroused by sexy sights. In the right light, seeing each other in the throes of passion may be your best form of visual stimulation. Here are some mood lighting ideas:
- Candles: The flickering light of even a single candle can add an enchanting mystique to any room. Candles create a soft radiance that gives your bodies a warm glow. Subdued lighting also makes the surrounding décor feel cozy and private. Stained glass candle holders can enhance the effect even more.
- Fireplace: Making love in front of a blazing fire or the smoldering red embers afterwards can be a delightful, romantic experience. Even without a real one, you can recreate the sensual effect with a fireplace video and a portable heater. Or, get an Electric Fireplace Heater with Adjustable Flame Colors.
- Moon & Starlight: Although best far from city lights, making love outside in the star or moonlight can be an erotic adventure. Plan a special outing to coincide with a full moon.
- Sunset/Sunrise: A classic for romance, sensual intimacy during a sunrise or sunset can make them even more special.
- Strobe light: Imagine having wild sex in a pitch black room streaked with flashes of each other erotically frozen in your mind. The intensity of the flickering, stop motion style visual stimulation can be extremely thrilling. Bright colored lingerie adds to the effect.
- Flashlight: Use a small pen light to shine on areas of your body that you want stimulated. Turn it into a foreplay game. Start with a feather or artist brush, then touching, licking and sucking. Have your lover shine the flashlight on an erogenous zone that desires your focused attention.
- Rope & String Lights: Use decorative LED lights to add a special touch or fancy design for special occasions. Create a heart shape on the ceiling, border a mirror, showcase a collection of sex toys or design a futuristic role playing environment.
Try out different colored bulbs in regular light sockets (orange, green, blue, purple, black, flickering, etc.). A dimmer switch is important too. Also try lava lamps, fiber optic lights, spot lights, glow in the dark items, etc. Some lights can even be controlled with music to pulse with different colors and intensities. Experiment with various types of lighting to enhance your mood and sexual enjoyment. Use your creativity to explore the full erotic potential of mood light. There are so many wonderful possibilities to play with.

Aural Sex

Many people have a preference for aural stimulation. Music, for instance, can almost instantly trigger a change in mood. And, a sexy voice can be very erotic. Words and sounds can convey sensuality and lust. They can arouse desire and stimulate mental images or fantasies. For some people, sexy sounds are better than explicit visuals. Here are some ideas for aural stimulation:
- Talk Dirty: Phone sex is big business for a reason – it can be very erotic. A sensual voice can arouse fantasies with descriptive suggestions. Explore nasty slang or romantic euphemisms from books or movies. If you are a little shy, dabble in some phone sex with your lover to practice. Erotic stories read aloud and whispered descriptions of your desire are good aural treats.
- Art of the Moan: Both men and women enjoy lovers who moan as an expression of their passion. “Oohs” and “Aahs” combined with some dirty words of encouragement add to the mental thrill. Demonstrate your enthusiasm for each other with sounds of pleasure. Recorded sounds of sex or even background porn can also be arousing.
- Exotic Sounds: Use CDs with recorded sounds of nature (waves, rain, thunder, a gushing river, blowing wind, etc.) to transport yourselves to a pretend fantasy location. Depending on the type of fantasy or roleplaying game, special sound tracks could enhance the setting. Consider a dungeon scenario with special sound effects reminiscent of an inquisition or a crowd cheering your private sex show.
- Mood Music: Depending upon the type of mood you desire, try instrumental music to guide the rhythm and pace of your love making. Calming peaceful music will encourage slow and sensual touching, kissing and licking. Music with a heavy, pulsing beat will encourage intensely passionate sex. Try to find music that builds intensity smoothly to help guide your bodies to an ultimate climax.
- Erotic Dance: The right music is essential when you want to perform a good erotic dance or strip tease for your lover. Seductive and sultry music is great for enticingly slow movements. Faster paced, sexy rock/pop music is excellent for stimulating desire for wild, passionate sex. Slow dancing naked together is a very intimate, romantic and sensual activity that can be done as foreplay or after play.
- Oral Sex: When enjoying cunnilingus, play some instrumental music that starts soft and slowly builds intensity. Use the rhythm of the music to guide your tongue movements. Consider creating your own sound track with multiple songs that are relaxing yet arousing – 20 minutes of oral pleasuring should be about right.
- Sensory Deprivation: Try having your lover wear a blindfold and noise cancelling headphones. Without being able to see or hear you, build erotic excitement with unexpected, creative sensations. The anticipation of each touch will make all their erogenous zones buzz with excitement.
- Guided Fantasies: Erotic CDs with detailed fantasies are available that can be used during masturbation or as a means to arouse your desire before making love. With special sound effects and read by seductive voices, the audio programs can guide and stimulate your mental images with delicious results.
Try different sources and types of sound to help explore your aural erogenous zones. Experiment in the art of erotic talk and, with practice, you will become comfortable offering your own aural stimulation. There are books and programs available to help refine your aural skills.
- For guys, check out Learn Talking Dirty Secrets to seduce your lady.
- Women, get your guy hot and eager with The Language of Desire.
Learn to seduce each other and make love with words. Expressing yourselves in this way may also encourage you to have more intimate discussions and improve other aspects of your relationship.

Arousing Anticipation

As with big budget movies, creating desire starts long before the “release date”. Teaser videos and suggestive ads arouse interest and build excitement. You can stimulate a similar sense of anticipation for hot sex using love coupons. Here are a few sex coupons books we’ve designed to help you spice up your love life with even more exciting activities for couples.

As you can see, there are many ways to create an atmosphere for sensual pleasure and passionate sex. Mix and match the ideas and explore the full erotic potential of light and sound in your love play. Give out a few well timed sex coupons and stimulate even more desire.

Get in The Mood and …
Enjoy Hotter Lovemaking!
May 23, 2012
Talking Dirty Foreplay Tips for Couples
Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay
Use Aural Sex to Turn Each Other On

Ever wonder why phone sex is such a big business? Guys will spend many dollars a minute for hot, dirty talk from sultry women. And women swoon over a sexy voice and devour romance novels with descriptive scenes of seduction. Although most women and men tend to be shy expressing their erotic desires, we all love to hear a sexy voice focused on arousing us. Talking dirty can be extremely hot foreplay when you discover your special language of love.

Does the idea of dirty talk in the bedroom get you excited? Have you been asked to talk dirty while making love but are too shy to go for it? Or, do you want some hot erotic talk from your lover but they feel too inhibited to let go? You’re not alone. Discover how you can use the power of your voice to build exciting sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control. With a few techniques, you can learn how to use your voice as a powerful aural aphrodisiac.

Talking dirty is not just about using naughty or even filthy words. It is about the emotions and desires you want to convey and express. Depending upon the context, you may want to scream profanities in unbridled passion or whisper the same words in public as a flirtatious hint of your frisky intentions. Consider the sultry whisper of a seductress, the harsh command of a dominatrix or the ecstatic moans of a porn star. You can stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination with explicit and descriptive detail or seduce them with simple phrases spoken in a sexy tone.

To be effective, your erotic talk needs to seem natural to you so that you feel both comfortable and confident in what you say and how you say it. This comes from practice and by becoming more aware of what you both like. Some words and phrases may feel and sound awkward at first. Here are a few ways to practice talking dirty:
- When you are reading or watching a movie, keep track of sexy words used in romantic or arousing scenes. Make a list of erotic phrases you can use and, when alone, practice saying them out loud in a sexy voice. Get familiar with how the words sound and how they make you feel.
- Get yourself some erotic literature that includes descriptive terms for various body parts and sex activities. Include material your lover would read. Read short, steamy passages out loud and experiment with different ways to make them sound seductive as you speak them. Try whispering, lowering or raising your tone, using a throaty purr or even speaking with an accent.
- Write out a fantasy or short erotic story involving yourself and your lover. Weave in words and phrases you find arousing (from above). Read the story out loud to yourself using different types of voice to see which versions you find most arousing.
- Write out a list of sexual compliments (e.g. “I love the way you …”, “It feels so good when you …”) and desires (e.g. “I want your hot tongue …”, “Use your fingers to …”). Say them out loud the way you imagine using them. You may actually want to practice these while masturbating to feel how the words add to your arousal.
Once you feel confident with your aural skills, here are some ways to use erotic talk to spice up your sex life:
- While in a public situation, seductively whisper how you want to ravish your lover. Build the anticipation with naughty ideas that might just come true before you actually get home.
- Use erotically encouraging words to describe exactly what you want and need to reach an intense orgasm. Hearing your own words can be extremely exciting too.
- When internet dating, your first phone call is extremely important. A seductive voice and flirtatious words can stimulate an intense desire and sense of attraction for you.
- Engage in phone sex with your partner when you are apart (or even in separate rooms). Keep long distance relationships hot and passionate.
- Leave naughty voice messages that will make your lover rush home craving your touch.
- Record a sexy story or fantasy on your computer and download it to your lover’s MP3 player or smart phone. Since many play videos now, you can even use a webcam to record a sexy video of yourself telling the erotic story.
- Stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination while you are making love. With their eyes closed, take them into a fantasy with your voice.
- When engaging in soft bondage play using a blindfold, use your voice to tease and tantalize your submissive lover. Describe what you are going to do before you do it (or surprise them and do something total unexpected).
Remember that you are using dirty talk to excite both your self and your lover. However, keep in mind that, for some people, certain words have emotional triggers to bad memories. If you do hit a nerve, learn from each other and adapt. When you are open and honestly communicate about sex, you will both feel empowered and more willing to express your erotic desires. Learn to make love with words and you will be able to ignite sexual fireworks with hot mental foreplay.

Discover how you can use the power of your voice to build sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control. You will be amazed at the sexual pleasures you unleash when you unlock the secrets of talking dirty. Get started today and unlock the secret, exciting, sexual powers of your voice. Expressing yourselves with erotic talk will also encourage you to have more intimate discussions and improve other aspects of your relationship.
- For women, become an empowered verbal vixen and get the passionate sex you crave in your wildest fantasies. Get your guy hot and eager for you when you learn the Language of Desire.
- For guys, learn the language of love with a suave, sexy voice and women will swoon with lust for your sensual touch. Click on Learn Talking Dirty Secrets to seduce your lady and guide her sexual fantasies to a sheet clutching climax.
Learn the secrets of aural sex today and enjoy hot mental foreplay of the mind. Hot dirty talk in and out of the bedroom will spice up your relationship.

Stimulate Your Desire …
Enjoy Talking Dirty Together!
May 21, 2012
Aural Sex – Hot Juicy Stories
Your mind is your most potent sexual organ. It’s responsible for your excitement, sense of passion and ultimately your orgasm. Developing your sense of eroticism with erotic fantasy material will enable you to heighten your arousal whenever you desire. Stimulate your minds with juicy stories that you read to each other or try some aural sex delivered at your beckon call.

Do you want to re-ignite your passion?

If you’re looking for some erotic fuel to keep your love fires burning bright, there’s a way you can safely explore explicit fantasies and erotic adventures either alone or together with your lover. Transport yourself to incredible dimensions of mental pleasure. Stimulate your mind then ravish your lover and satisfy both your desires. Sample forbidden sensual treats, explore intriguing taboos, delight in unimaginable sexual adventures and then revel in the knowledge that you can experience these pleasures of the mind anytime you want or need. Whether for a mental escape or intense physical release, expand your sexual thinking with new and creative ideas. Focus on sexy thoughts and attract more passion into your life today. Dare to Desire More for yourself and your lover.

Take control of your pleasure and make the times you spend with your lover hot, Hot, HOT!

Delicious Aural Sex for Women

Imagine yourself being taken far far away to a place where all is possible, to a place all is permissible, a place where colours and feelings possess amazing intensity, where whispers are felt throughout the entirety of your body. A special place where time no longer has meaning, where sensation becomes you.

Open your mind to deliciously evocative erotic stories. Stories read to you by potent, mesmerizing voices skilled in utterly capturing and holding your attention. Stories written from your perspective, so that you are there, you are the central character, you are the one that things happen to.

You will be there… you will taste the tastes, delight in scents, see eyes flash with mischief, feel rain and sun and warmth and breezes, feel your skin touched… touched by strength, by curiosity, by hunger, by lust!

What is this? Intelligent porn for women, aural sex for women, sensational smut, sex for the mind… all of that and more.

This is something enchantingly unique, something for your pleasure. Stories recorded by engaging, sensually charging voices for you to take where you need to. These are not just stories passively read to you about things happening to other people, these are stories where you are the one that things happen to … you are the center of attention, you are remarkably there.

Here you will find a most marvellous venue for engorging the mind with the most magnificent smut! One that can create a truly unique individual experience that is wickedly invigorating.

Each involves a privately explicit fantasy, meant to be listened to when it is your time alone. With your mind and these stories, you will for a time leave the rest of the world behind and simply enjoy.

The trips of the mind, the fantasies are many and varied. They are those fantasies that have tickled you from the warm darkness, way, way in the back of your mind for years… and they are here now.

Provocative, enticing, fun and safe.

Delicious Aural Sex Stories
There is nothing better than a Hot Wet Woman especially when she’s your lover! Discover how dirty talk can be one of the best foreplay techniques you can both enjoy together. The books below can help you develop these aural skills.
Find out how you can use the power of your voice to build sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control. Learn to make love with words and you will be able to ignite sexual fireworks with hot mental foreplay. You will be amazed at the sexual pleasures you unleash when you unlock the secrets of talking dirty. Get started today and unlock the secret, exciting, sexual powers of your voice. Expressing yourselves with erotic talk will also encourage you to have more intimate discussions and improve other aspects of your relationship.
- For women, become an empowered verbal vixen and get the passionate sex you crave in your wildest fantasies. Get your guy hot and eager for you when you learn the Language of Desire. If you get really good at it (or want more practice) and want a side hustle, you could explore becoming a phone sex operator – it’s a big money maker for a reason.
- For guys, learn the language of love with a suave, sexy voice and women will swoon with a lust for your sensual touch. Click on Learn Talking Dirty Secrets to seduce your lady and guide her sexual fantasies to a sheet clutching climax.
Learn the secrets of aural sex today and enjoy hot mental foreplay of the mind. Hot dirty talk in and out of the bedroom will spice up your relationship.

Stimulate Your Sexual Desire …
Enjoy Aural Sex Together!
May 9, 2012