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  • Sexual Sparks Stimulate New Lovemaking Ideas

    Sexual Sparks Stimulate New Lovemaking Ideas

    Explore Creative Lovemaking Ideas
    Enjoy Better Sex

    Has your sex life become comfortable to the point of being mundane or boring? To maintain the thrill, passion and excitement, you need to engage your minds with something Novel & Exciting. Even subtle changes can make a regular activity seem extraordinary, spectacular and especially memorable. Change can be a bit scary but it’s inevitable and absolutely necessary. What’s great though, you can easily take control of change with an open mind, a sense of adventure, and an intense curiosity for life.

    Sexual pleasure is mysterious in many ways. Even if you’ve tried a technique or position once with less than favourable results, performing the activity in a different situation may dramatically improve your experience. There are so many factors that contribute to how your mind and body react to various types of stimulation. Even tried and true techniques guaranteed to give you pleasure can fail at times. But new is always good for a change.

    Re-ignite Your Sexual Desire

    To help stimulate your erotic imagination for new pleasure possibilities, we designed a Sexual Creativity Stimulator. It’s a special creativity tool used to spark your desire for wonderfully new experiences with your partner. It’s sure to enhance your intimacy, spice up your love life, and strengthen your relationship as you explore new ways to enjoy each.

    Our Sexual Creativity Stimulator is a set of sexy suggestions designed to help stimulate your own erotic ideas for truly amazing lovemaking. There are 69 different concept and activity suggestion cards. The idea is to randomly pick a topic card. Then, use the concept to stimulate your erotic imagination. The challenge is to come up with a list of pleasuring possibilities or wild ideas to try out. Either alone or with your lover, perform some fantasy brainstorming and plan a unique way to enhance your next intimate encounter.

    To further spice up your sexy ideas with an extra creativity challenge, you can add a random modifier. Either as an individual topic or enhanced with a sexy twist, you would discuss the idea with your lover to get their input and trigger new ideas together. Or, surprise them with a uniquely wonderful experience you know they’ll love. Step out of your comfort zone – make it special for both of you.

    Our Sexual Creativity Stimulator was originally provided online in text only format. A graphic, erotic art element was needed to help activite different areas of your brain. We choose to develop both an app and a Kindle version of our card deck and call it Sexual Sparks.

    Sexual Sparks App Has the excitement burned out in your love life? All you need is the right spark to reignite your passion and desire for each other. Add a few spicy new erotic ideas and they’re sure to catch alight and burn bright in your relationship. Sexual Sparks will entice you to rekindle your craving for hot sex together. They’ll inspire you to fan the flames of your love and make your sex life sizzle in and out of bed.

    Sexual Sparks are based on a deck of creative sex cards. Each has an erotic image, a theme overview and an action or question to stimulate your sexy thoughts. They engage your mind in different ways to help you come up with more creative lovemaking ideas. Pick a card and use it to inspire your erotic imagination. Or, combine them like titillating tarot cards to predict your own sex fortune and make your fantasies come true.

    Imagine the sparkle in your lover’s eyes as you surprise them with new sensual pleasures of both mind and body. Get Sexual Sparks now and set off arousing fireworks in your bedroom tonight! More Details

    Unfortunately, the app was removed from sale due to device and iOS updates (iLoveRandomSex does provide similar creativity ideas). We are working to redevelop the Sexual Sparks app from scratch to satisfy all the approval requirements. However, in today’s cultural environment, even tame sex-oriented images are being censored. And that’s for apps specifically designated as 18+! This is a seriously concerning challenge. However, our Kindle and full color paperback versions are still available:

    A Kindle or Android app may be considered as another future development option. Here are two sample cards from the Kindle version:

     

    Are You Willing to Try Anything …
    At Least Once?

    The ideas you and your partner come up with may challenge you both to push your sexual limits or boundaries to some degree. Explore your sexual comfort zones to figure out where those boundaries exist and where you desire change. Experiment with each suggestion at least once even if they appear difficult at first. Dare to have fun and enjoy yourself and your lover.

    Stimulate Your Creativity and …
    Enjoy Great Sex!

     

    Sealed with a Kiss

  • Dating Questions About Kinky Sex Play

    Dating Questions About Kinky Sex Play

    Dating questions about kinky sex are not necessarily appropriate to ask about on your first few dates. However as your relationship gets more intimate, these types of sex questions will help you discover how sexually compatible you are. Since a good sexual connection is essential for a long lasting relationship, it’s critical that you find out as soon as possible if you’ll both be sexually satisfied. Discovering that you’re erotic interests and desires are incompatible after investing time, money, effort and emotions is such a waste. And if you end up getting stuck in a sex starved marriage, it can be even worse.

    Here are some sexy questions to ask your partner about their sexual preferences. Start an intimate conversation and explore new ways to spice up your sex life. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions on our Love & Sex Questions for Couples website. These have been selected to help you discover your erotic preferences and the boundaries of your sexual comfort zones.

    Kinky Sex is Fun Adult Play

    We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

    What kinds of activities do you consider to be kinky?

    When you talk about out of the ordinary erotic activities, you’ll discover how you each feel about various pleasure possibilities. Keep in mind that thinking something is kinky doesn’t mean it’s totally forbidden. In fact, the taboo nature of certain erotic pleasures can make it more fun when you’re both feeling a little naughty. Knowing what’s kinky in your relationship just means you avoid it for normal lovemaking, while keeping it in reserve for special times together.

    What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?

    How we develop our erotic desires is a complex psychological process formed from all our experiences. It can feel scary sharing deeply personal details about what turns you on. But, as you explore and begin to appreciate your unique erotic personalities, you’ll be able to inspire each other to shed inhibitions and reach new heights of passion together.

    How kinky or sexually adventurous do you feel you are and why?

    Sex doesn’t always have to be romantic, sensual and loving. It can and should be a little wild, naughty and fun too. For two people in love, sex can be a life long erotic adventure filled with all sorts of exciting and stimulating sexual experiences. You want to know that your partner is open and willing to explore how thrilling sex can be even if it means getting a little dirty or messy.

    What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?

    Fetish play can be a fun form of kinky sex that you can experiment with to spice up your sex life. Note that there is a big difference between normal sexual turn ons and fetishes. This can lead to relationship problems unless you have compatible erotic preferences. If you do discover your partner has a very intense fetish that you’re not comfortable with, you need to evaluate this information carefully.

    What are some kinky activities you would like to try and what are off limits for you?

    It can be exciting to discover how sexually curious, mischievous and adventurous your partner can be. You also want to find out what sorts of inhibitions you each have. Note that inhibitions may just be due to sexual inexperience, lack of knowledge or even misinformation about certain sexual practices. By having intimate conversations about wild or kinky sex ideas, you’ll get a sense of how your sexual relationship will develop.

    Would you consider yourself more of an exhibitionist or voyeur and why?

    Talking about your sexual preferences for exhibitionism or voyeurism can lead to some fun ways for improving your sex life. You can take advantage of your desires to watch or be watched to increase your arousal. Use it like mental foreplay. Think of what kinds of roleplay scenarios or hot sex games you can play that give you both a sense of naughty pleasure. You can roleplay sexual fantasies and make a porn together or even create masturbation videos for your lover.

    Take the time to ask each other fun questions that get you thinking and talking about all kinds of sexy new erotic ideas. You may just come up with a few to try tonight.

    Frisky Foreplay Kinky Sex Games

    Once you’ve had enough talking and want to get down to some kinky sex action, check out our book Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games and spice up your adult play time. It comes with hundreds of foreplay ideas for women and men organized into six intensity levels. The sexy ideas range from warm and loving to wild and kinky. The object of this hot sex game for couples is to see how kinky you’re willing to be while enjoying a range of sensual pleasures along the way.

    For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

    Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available)). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

    Stimulate Your Naughty Desires and …
    Enjoy Even Better Sex!

    To help spice up your relationship even more, we’ve made a few dirty truth or dare books availble on Amazon:

    Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.

    Sealed with a Kiss