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Sexy Costumes and Erotic Roleplay Ideas for Couples in the Bedroom

Although costumes are not required to enjoy roleplay games in the bedroom, clothing and accessories can help you get into character much easier. Just like when you wear a business suit to the office, elegant evening wear at a social gathering or seductive outfits for the club, your choice of clothing can make you feel and behave differently. What we wear affects our mood and even how we think. Consider actors performing full dress rehearsals to really get into character. Clothing does make you act different, feel more confident and perform better. You may want to try a few undressed rehearsals for your roleplay characters before investing in any expensive costumes or accessories. Still, there are a lot of inexpensive erotic outfits available to spice up your adult play.

Wearing a sexy costume to bed can get you both excited. It can be even hotter if you have sex while still wearing your outfit rather than stripping it all off. But, however sexy the costume is, to be truly erotic it needs to be connected with a compelling and arousing story. To make your adult dress up games even more thrilling, you’ll want to explore your fantasies together and pretend to be different characters taking on erotic roles in a variety of spicy sexual scenarios.

Although it may seem kinky to some, roleplaying in the bedroom can help improve your relationship and enable you both to fulfill you sexual desires and needs. But, if you’re attempting to spice up your sex life to keep it from getting boring or routine, you’ll want more than just one costume or roleplay scenario to play with. That’s why we wrote our book 123 Frisky Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Roleplay Ideas: Dare to Play Naughty Sexy Scenarios for Couples.

Each steamy scenario sets the stage for a hot and passionate encounter. They’ll stimulate your erotic imagination and encourage you to experience a wide variety of wild, lust filled adventures for two. Together, you’ll explore sizzling hot erotic possibilities as you magically transport each other into thrilling new sexual fantasies. You’ll surprise and delight each other as you discover how to creatively stimulate both your minds and bodies to higher levels of ecstasy. Take the dare to play naughty with these sexy scenarios for couples and get the book today.

There are lots of ways to enhance your intimate play with these erotic story ideas besides acting them out. Each is written as a sexual roleplay scenario but you can use them to start an intimate conversation, inspire a lust letter, encourage dirty talk or set the theme for a hot session of phone sex. There is a broad range of juicy scenarios to suit all types of erotic fantasies and sexual desires. All the fantasy roleplay scenarios provide a plausible reason why the characters are about to have sex together but the ultimate climax to the story and how it plays out is up to you. Once you’ve tried them all, you can replay them again and again with different endings. You’ll have many great reasons to get into a variety of sexy costumes, use all your sex toys and try out other kinky accessories too.

We’ve also created a version for lesbian couples. Many of the sexy story ideas are similar to the ones in our original book. However, they have all been completely rewritten for lesbian play.

By exploring each of the steamy scenarios with your partner, you get to experience pretend affairs and play dirty together without cheating. You get to satisfy your craving for new and exciting sexual experiences while deepening your emotional connection at the same time. With shared sexual fantasies, dirty talk and erotic roleplay, you can be anyone and do anyone any where any time. You can indulge all your deepest darkest desires together with no fear, guilt or shame. You’re bound to have lots of fun roleplaying these deliciously wicked ideas in and out of your bedroom. You can even get them on your Kindle and start roleplaying tonight. We know you’ll enjoy these books and hope you order your copy today.

Wookbook versions are also available. They are designed for you to plan out or customize the roleplay scenarios so you can Make It Personal and Make It Happen!

Sexual Fantasy Workbooks

Sexy Roleplay Coupon Books

If you know any other couple in need of something to enrich their relationship, tell them about these books or send them one as a gift so they can enjoy playing naughty too. A nice review and an excellent rating on Amazon would also be much appreciated.

December 14, 2013
Intimate Questions: Explore Kinky Sex Ideas

Discussing and experimenting with some kinky sex activities like bondage requires a lot of trust in your partner. While the erotic fear factor may add to the erotic thrill, you definitely want to eliminate any real dangers both physical and emotional. So learn as much as you can together using books or other information resources so you can play safe. Use the questions for couples in this article to get your partner talking about new ways to play together in and out of the bedroom. Start an intimate conversation and explore creative ways to spice up your sex life.

Kinky Sex is Fun Adult Play

Here are some intimate questions to ask your partner to see how they feel about various types of kinky sex play. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions on our Love and Sex Questions for Couples website. These have been selected to help you discover your erotic preferences and the boundaries of your sexual comfort zones.

We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

How do you feel about experimenting with bondage?

Bondage play can arouse very intense feelings. By transferring control, the emotional and physical dynamics of sex change. This can be exciting and fun or extremely distressing. Ask your partner how they feel about experimenting with bondage. Get a sense of how they may react in different scenarios. To help explore your individual desires, talk about who would be dominant or submissive, different sexual roleplay fantasies to act out and various restraint techniques or devices.

Note: For beginners to bondage play, check out the Bondage Bed Sheet – it’s a special bed sheet and velcro restraint kit that quickly transforms your bed into a bondage play area. The ankle and wrist cuffs are much safer than ropes or ties. They can also be quickly and easily moved to permit a wide variety of bondage positions. The velcro attachments hold firm yet allows you to get free if required.

What kinds of kinky role playing games would you like to try?

Sexual role playing can be a fun way to perk up your passion. Ask your lover about various erotic scenarios they might like to role play. Adult pretend games could be inspired by your sexual fantasies or may just be something sexy you’ve seen in a steamy movie or read about in a spicy novel. As you talk about different role play ideas, you will naturally start planning how to act out your sexy scenarios. It doesn’t have to be elaborate but you could get costumes and various other accessories to make it more realistic. For inspiration, check out our book 123 Frisky Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Roleplay Ideas: Dare to Play Naughty Sexy Scenarios for Couples. A Lesbian version is also available.

How do you feel about ass play and anal pleasuring?

Anal sex is a forbidden pleasure enjoyed by both men and women of all sexual orientations. The anal region is a very sensitive erogenous zone rich in nerve endings. Anal play can be extremely stimulating and intensely pleasurable for both of you. But not everyone is willing to explore this part of the body for various reasons. By talking about various types of anal pleasuring activities, you can explore your individual desires and reservations about this sensitive subject.

What forms of BDSM play have you heard of and how do you feel about them?

People engage in a wide range of erotic practices for sexual pleasure. Although you may believe some of your secret desires are out of the ordinary, they may actually be more common than you think. Many couples keep their seemingly deviant desires secret without even realizing that their partner has similar cravings. When you know each other’s deepest erotic urges and discover compatible interests, you can satisfy both of your sexual needs together.

How do you feel about role reversal and gender play?

Being kinky sometimes involves playing with social conventions and behaviour expectations. Sensitive subjects like gender play and sexual stereo types can be exciting to mess with. Role reversal can be as simple as switching from an assertive or dominant role to a more passive or submissive role in the bedroom. Gender play takes role reversal a little further. It can even involve roleplaying different sexual orientations. Add a gender twist to your sex life and explore your wild side. For inspiration, check out this erotic story: Kinky New Marriage Vows: First Time Forbidden Pleasures.

What sorts of pain play would you like to experiment with?

It may seem weird but pain play during sex can be erotically stimulating both for the person giving it and the one receiving it. Kinky sex ideas involving pain as pleasure include sensual spanking, light biting, scratching or hair pulling. More advanced erotic pain practices might involve hot wax, nipple clamps, floggers, paddles and even piercing needles. For these more extreme erotic practices, learn as much as you can about it so you can play safe. Even if actual pain is not something you desire, try reading some BDSM erotica together and enjoy it in your sexual fantasies.

Start an intimate conversation with sexy questions to spice up your love life. Take the time to ask each other fun questions that get you thinking and talking about all kinds of sexy new erotic ideas. You might come up with a few that you’ll want to try out tonight.

For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. All the sex questions in the book are for fun and for play – leave the serious questions for some other time. Whether you’re curled up next to each other or talking on the phone, start a sexy conversation today and see where it leads. When you feel more comfortable talking about sex together, you’ll feel much more comfortable enjoying sex too.

We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

Stimulate Your Naughty Desires and …
Enjoy Even Better Sex!

To help spice up your relationship even more, we’ve made a few dirty truth or dare books availble on Amazon:

Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.

May 3, 2012
Invest in Love to Save Your Marriage
Your Relationship is an Investment
Protect It!

Anything you do to enhance the love, pleasure and happiness you experience together as a couple is an investment in your relationship. Guard your happiness together like the treasure it is and invest in your relationship so that it prospers. Interest in each other is worth so much more than a bank can give you. Make sensual intimacy a priority and learn all you can to keep your sex life passionate and exciting. Invest in your sex education to learn more about each other and yourselves. As you discover new ideas, you’ll ignite your desire for more intimate, sensual pleasures to enjoy together.

But beware – with the current economic turmoil, couples are experiencing an even greater risk than ever before. Financial worries are slowly weakening relationships at a time when couples need to bond closer than ever. Even subtle feelings of stress can create tension between couples leading to hurt feelings and an ever growing emotional separation. It may lead to infidelity, separation, divorce or worse unless you guard against it. You need each other now more than ever. Invest in your relationship and make it a priority above all. Provide each other mutual support and work together as a team to build a life filled with an abundance of fun, love and happiness.

In stressed relationships, emotional, sensual and sexual intimacy are the first to go (usually in that order). Unfortunately couples forget that great sex is the best medicine. Good loving sensual intimacy is healing in so many ways. Loving sex strengthens your emotional bonds and perks up your body and brain chemistry as well. It brightens your mood and just makes you feel amazing. While an orgasm is the ultimate in stress release, every moment of affectionate closeness together is an investment in your relationship.

But maybe you’re already thinking it’s too late ….

Is your marriage as strong as you’d like?

Did the feature image above stir mental images of catching your partner cheating with someone else? Or instead, we hope you imagined getting caught with your partner doing something extra naughty together.

Nobody said marriage was ever going to be easy, and if they did, they were lying. It’s perfectly normal in a marriage to have disagreements and times when things involve a little more effort than they used to. In an ideal world, we would sit and talk about these changes and differences in a calm and rational manner, establish an outcome and move on. Unfortunately things don’t always work like that. Its all too easy to get caught up in the moment and let things deteriorate to the point where you’re both wondering why you’re still in it.

Don’t Give Up on Your Marriage!

Couples all over the planet give up on their marriages every year, and they do so needlessly. If they knew what to do to open the lines of communication and talk to their partners, they could save themselves a lot of stress and heartache.

You never thought the day you married that you would end up divorcing. In fact, it would have been the furthest thing from your mind. If you don’t take action now, your marriage will fail.

But you can have access to all the techniques necessary to facilitate resolving conflicts, increase self esteem, learn about forgiveness, and reignite the passion that you both once felt. With expert information and help you can save your marriage, and avoid being a divorce statistic. It may be the best advice you have ever had!

Avoid being another statistic….

These online resources encourages couples to break the ice and develop ways to interact and strengthen their failing relationship. The techniques revealed are thought provoking and have been proven over and over to help save marriages. The material deals with topics such as:
- Tips on how to rescue your marriage
- How to reintroduce passion
- How to repair your marriage after an affair
- Self assessment
- Gestures that are more important than words
- And much, much more…
Over 2 million couples divorce every year, and many of those could have been avoided if those couples communicated and applied the Save Your Marriage process. Of coourse, it can’t work miracles and save every marriage, but if you are serious about resurrecting the love you once had for your partner and saving your marriage, you should maximize your chances by reading and applying the relationship advice available with just a few clicks.

Now, if you feel your marriage just needs a bit of a boost, consider spicing up your love life and see if you can re-ignite your passion for each other again.

Add to Your Love Library & Learn to Enjoy Sex More!

You can find an excellent selection of erotica and inspirational sex guides for couples on the Eden Fantasys website. These specially selected articles and educational videos cover a broad range of subjects including:
- Art of Female Ejaculation
- Creative Positions for Lovers
- Erotic Massage & Intimate Touching
- Guides to Oral and Anal Sex
- Self Loving Tips & Techniques
- Exotic Dance & Stripping
- Exploring Fantasies & Role Playing
- Guides to Erotic Bondage
- Using Sex Accessories & Toys
Regardless of your reasons, lovemaking guides will help you to improve your sex life even if it just brings on a smile, a giggle or a feeling of naughty delight. Enhance your carnal knowledge today and revel in the pleasures of your mind and body tonight. Reading any of this information will be one of the best investments of your lives together. Also, please check out our creative sex apps and books listed in the sidebar.

We hope you enjoy this sexy adult education – you’re sure to have loads of hot fun putting what you learn into practice with the person you love. And when you’re having great sex together, you’re bound to be much happy together too.

Be Her Best Lover and …
Save Your Marriage!
May 1, 2012
Carnal Knowledge: Learning About Sexual Pleasure is Magical
Supercharge Your Sexual Magic

Is it time to try something new to regain the magic energy in your sex life? Do you even know what other pleasure possibilities are available to you? Enhance your carnal knowledge and discover the intimate secrets that’ll ignite your desire for more intimate, sensual pleasures. As you learn more, you’ll gain confidence in your lovemaking prowess.

Orgasmic pleasuring techniques are no longer arcane secrets of the elite. However, with sex, as with any skill, lots and lots of practice is essential. But to progress to the level of mastery, a little knowledge can help you dramatically improve your abilities quickly. We aren’t born with magic fingers or tongues. Still, you can definitely learn some techniques that’ll transform you into a sensual/sexual wizard or witch. Both you and your lover can discover new sources of pleasure that will seem absolutely fantastic. This is fun and easy learning that you’ll hurry to put into practice again and again.

Add to Your Erotic Library & Learn New Sex Magic!

You can find an excellent selection of couples oriented erotica and inspirational sex guides on the Eden Fantasys website. These well crafted articles and educational videos cover a broad range of subjects providing you with a number of benefits:
- Enhance your fantasies and inspire new ones
- Explore your body’s capacity for pleasure
- Discover new sensual tricks and techniques
- Stimulate intimate conversations with your lover
- Arouse your self and your lover
- Identify your personal sexual preferences
- Enhance & expand your understanding of sex
- Learn to appreciate cultural differences around sex
- Spark your own creative ideas for sexual pleasure
- Sample sexy seduction techniques
Regardless of your reasons, reading any of these online articles will help you improve your sex life. Even if it just brings on a smile, a giggle or a feeling of naughty delight, it will be worth it. The sex position and toy usage animations are especially interesting. Enhance your Carnal Knowledge and revel in the pleasures of your mind and body. It’s not voodoo. See the Info menu to access the sexual fantasies and educational videos (you will have to sign in and verify you are of age to view explicit content).

Some of the topics include:
- Female Ejaculation or Squirting
- Creative Positions for Lovers
- Erotic Massage & Intimate Touching
- Guides to Oral and Anal Sex
- Self Loving Tips & Techniques
- Exotic Dance & Stripping
- Exploring Fantasies & Role Playing
- Guides to Erotic Bondage
- Using Sex Accessories & Toys
Visit the EdenFantasys website and check out a few of the sex positive resources today. Reward yourself with some visual and educational entertainment that’ll help improve your relationship too. And, while you’re browsing their website, get yourself and your lover a few adult toys to spice up your love life with even more pleasure.

We’ve also compiled a list of other more indepth resources you get can get access to online right now: Learn About Sex. We hope you enjoy improving your sex education and putting what you learn into practice with the person you love.

Be Her Best Lover and …
Rejoice in Her Orgasmic Energy!
April 30, 2012