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Naughty By Nature Erotic Game With Anal Sex Ideas
Inspire Naughty Ideas and Sexy Desires With This Erotic Couples Game

Have you ever seen a picture or object that reminded you of sex? They’re all over the place. When you let your mind run wild and set your erotic imagination free, you’ll begin to see sexually suggestive images in many everyday items you pass by each day. Nature itself can serve up many erotic surprises when you look for them. This provides a great opportunity for a romantic game for couples that also gives you a reason to get out and enjoy the outdoors together.

Start by going for a walk together in a natural setting. Then, challenge each other to find as many erotic shapes or images as you can – anything that remotely reminds you of sex. This will help you focus on the natural beauty. You’d be amazed how many details you pick out when sex is on your mind. Also, your playfully naughty thoughts are like mental foreplay that’ll turn you on more and more as you play. You’ll be racing to your bedroom when you get home.

Make your erotic adventure more interesting by keeping score. Agree on who found the most interesting scene or who finds the most to declare a winner. The winner receives a sexual favor or gets to play out a favorite fantasy. For this sexy game, all you need is a dirty mind. Gaze at the clouds, notice interesting knots in the trees, search out insects mating, forage for ideas in the flowers or uncover penis-shaped mushrooms. Boulders, crevices, leaves and even tracks in the sand can trigger naughty ideas and arousing associations.

Even if other people are walking around, you can secretly exchange clues to what you’re thinking. You’ll smile with a naughty grin as you point out interesting sites to each other.

You can even take digital pictures of the sexy scenes you discover and use these in a different type of bedroom game when you get home. Randomly pick one of the pictures you captured and use it to creatively come up with a sex play activity. Whoever comes up with the best idea related to your picture gets to enjoy it. You’ll be amazed how images of natural erotic art can inspire your lust for each other and increase your desire for great sex.

For example, the feature image above shows two flowers from our yard. Even alone, the resemblance to certain erogenous zones is hard to overlook. Together, your erotic imagination gravitates to a single taboo, albeit very natural, sexual activity. With this picture as inspiration, let’s consider a few anal sex and anal foreplay ideas.

Greek Tickler
Similar to a French Tickler, let’s dub this one a Greek Tickler – the tickler part is on the rear end, too. I have seen a number of sex toys intended for double penetration of both the vagina and anus but I don’t recall seeing any with tickler nubs. Butt plugs can be used as foreplay to prepare for anal intercourse or even kept in while having regular vaginal sex, oral sex or during other foreplay activities. Anal play is a naughty pleasure both women and men can enjoy regardless of sexual orientation. Remember to use lots of lubrication with your anal toys and be very gentle. All anal toys should have a flared base to ensure they do not get lost inside.

Double Entry
Many women fantasize about being completely filled up – both vaginally and anally at the same time. Whether you have a spare cock on hand or not, you can fulfill her fantasy with a penis double. A dildo, vibrator or butt plug are quick substitutes when you need to make a double entry (even accountants can do it – couldn’t resist).

Bud Sex
Just a little play on words, but Butt Sex can be enjoyed by heterosexual men too. It has also been discovered that prostate massage via anal play may actually have health benefits. Prostate massage can create very intense orgasms by itself or combined with fellatio or a hand job. There are even sex toys specially designed as prostate massagers for men to be used during masturbation or sex with a partner. Consider experimenting with intercourse while having a butt plug inserted for an even more explosive orgasm. Guys that allow their girlfriend or wife to penetrate them anally may also help encourage them to explore and enjoy anal intercourse too. Mutual anal play can definitely spice up your relationship. Check out this Bend Over Boyfriend article for some additional information. If you are interested in strap-on role reversal sex play, take a look at the Feeldoe or Nexus double dildos. There are also double anal dildos that can be used for a little cheek-to-cheek action.

Anal Artist
The anus is highly concentrated with nerves. Even if you do not intend to indulge in anal intercourse, creatively stimulating this sensitive region can be extremely pleasurable. Imagine painting the anus with a brush as though it were a delicate flower. Trace each petal lightly with a dry artist brush, just tickling an outline of your masterpiece. Then add some lube to your brush and stroke the petals again with a nice smooth gliding motion. You could even use body paints for a visual delight. Choose various types of artist brushes and swirling, stroking techniques to create new sensations in your erotic art world.

Anal Intercourse
Intercourse does mean communication, and anal sex definitely requires it. The anal tissues are extremely delicate and can be torn. Anal intercourse can actually be a more intimate sexual activity because it does require a deeper level of trust and sensitivity. When engaging in anal sex, go very, very slow at first and use lots of water-based lubrication. Relaxation is critical to great anal sex. Stress-related tension may build up in the ass making anal play less pleasurable. More foreplay will help your lover relax so that they can fully enjoy the intimately erotic experience of anal stimulation. See Anal Sex From A Female Perspective for more insights – there are related links to more of her articles on anal sex that are very well written.
Special Notes: Here are a few notes to consider when adding anal play to your sexual repertoire:
- You may not have seen many articles discussing the possible “mess” associated with anal sex. In general, fecal matter is not stored in the rectum, but some may remain. Use a towel beneath you as a precaution. Porn stars performing anal sex scenes use an anal douche before the shoot to fully clean out the rectum. Again, the need to communicate helps in the preparation so that no one is anxious or feeling dirty.
- In the past, it was recommended to use desensitizing creams or lubes to “reduce the pain” of anal intercourse. In my opinion, this is extremely bad. First of all, anal sex should not be painful at all. With proper foreplay, anal stimulation and relaxation, the sphincter muscles will relax and easily accommodate a penis or dildo. You will want to feel stretching and fullness as part of your pleasure but definitely not discomfort. Second, pain is a warning that something could be tearing and desensitizing creams will suppress these important signals. You may even engage in rougher sex when you are not ready for it, causing more damage. Third, the point of anal sex is to experience mutual pleasure. If you desensitize or numb the anal nerves, you also reduce the sense of pleasure you can receive from them. This note also applies to alcohol and drug use. If you are engaging in anal sex just for the guy’s benefit and not your own pleasure, too – don’t.
- Experiment with different positions to discover one that feels best. Doggie style, spooning, woman on top and missionary are a few variations that offer their own benefits. Also, consider the psychological aspects of the different positions since they can add to the thrill of anal intercourse.
- Always wear a condom for anal intercourse, even in a committed, monogamous relationship.
What other sexy ideas can you think of related to the picture above?

Please leave a comment and describe the sexy images you discovered and how you interpreted them for your erotic play.

For more detailed information about anal pleasuring for couples, check out these two books:
- The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
- Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners
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August 8, 2012
How to Make Your Own Sexy Foreplay Games for Couples
Why Play the Same Old Couples Games When You Can Transform Them Into Sexy Foreplay Games Using Your Own Creative Sex Ideas and Have Even More Fun Together?

Most people find sex to be “enjoyable” but still have a feeling that something is missing. Are you spending less time playing together because sex seems mundane, boring, or routine? If so, the intimate foundation of your relationship may be weakening as well. But, how do you keep your intimate times together fresh, exciting and fun? How do you make sex wild, hot and intensely passionate?

Do you remember the fun and excitement you experienced playing competitive games when you were young? Consider tapping into that thrill of victory to stimulate your sex life. Combine the adrenaline rush of an intense game with the intimacy and sensual delights of extended foreplay. With a bit of imagination, you can turn any ordinary game into an opportunity for great sex. And, with sex at stake, you both win every time.

Essentially any game for two (or more) can be enhanced using sex as a reward for the winner. You don’t even need to be playing the game – just bet intimate activities on various events or outcomes. For instance, if you are watching sports on TV, define foreplay activities to be enjoyed based on the winner, the number of points scored, anticipated events (scoring, goals, achievements, etc.) or semi-random events (penalties, accidents, etc.). Once you get the hang of this, you will start thinking of all kinds of foreplay activities you can assign to each potential event in the competition.

When creating a foreplay game variation from one of your own favorites, introduce a range of different intimate activities. Design them in a way that encourages you to sample various types and intensities of stimulation for a total sensual experience. More exotic activities could be assigned to rare events or as rewards for exceptional skill. Try to avoid excessive repetition of any specific foreplay activity unless you really, really like it. Write the activities down so you know what you are both playing for. The mental and physical stimulation of playing foreplay games together will transform your relationship.

For shy or slightly inhibited lovers, playing a normal game together can help get them into the mood. Prepare an inviting play area that suits the foreplay games you have in mind (pillows on the floor in front of a glowing fire with candles, wine and soft music is good). Then slyly introduce foreplay rewards and forfeits into the game. Include periodic, paced clothing removal – being forced to strip adds to the excitement. Build the intensity by escalating to more explicit types of sensual intimacy as the foreplay games progress.

Some example foreplay game ideas based on classic games are described below:
- Queens Gone Wild An erotic variation of chess with a special focus on the queen. It incorporates stripping and foreplay activities based on how the queen is played. And, as with many women, in this game she gets to play again and again. Although the ultimate goal is to mate the king, playing with the queen makes this game more interesting. When a queen takes a piece, delightful pleasures result. When a queen is taken, even more fun takes place.
- Remember To Have Sex An erotic adaptation of the Memory card game that incorporates stripping, sensual foreplay and passionate sex. Activities performed are determined by matching pairs of cards from a deck laid randomly face down. Attempt to find matches by turning over only two cards at a time. The player with the highest number of matches wins a special sex play activity or fantasy.
- Erotic Risk This risqué game of world conquest and domination for lovers leads you through an increasingly more intense sequence of foreplay activities. The ultimate goal, of course, is to dominate each other and have fun doing it. Foreplay activities are performed when you capture countries from your lover. As the conflict escalates, so does the intensity of the foreplay. Win by conquering all the countries of the world. The victor receives the spoils of conflict and becomes supreme ruler with corresponding rewards.
- Erotic Monopoly This is an erotic adaptation of Monopoly that allows you to buy happiness in the form of foreplay activities. Rather than renting houses, you build pleasure parlors and sell your special services. Foreplay activities are performed when a player lands on your properties and pays the appropriate fee. As the monetary stakes increase, so does the intensity of foreplay. You win when your lover has no money to pay for love and must sell their services to you.
- Strip Dice This is an exciting game for any number of players but specially adapted for couples. It integrates stripping and random foreplay activities. Although anything is possible throughout the game, the probability of more intense activities increases as the game progresses. You will need five dice.
- Sexy Sorry! This is an erotic variation of Sorry!. It incorporates stripping and foreplay activities when you “bump” your lover. When you send them back to the start, saying Sorry! just isn’t enough – apologize with sensual pleasuring. And, when you get a piece home, your lover strips off an article of clothing in anticipation of activities to come.
- Size Matters This is an erotic adaptation of a card game similar to War (Persian Pasha) for couples who enjoy intimate games. In this game you want to make the prize as BIG as possible without losing control. Premature climax in each hand is not in your best interest. While attempting to Strip your lover of all their cards, receive foreplay activities whenever the winning hand is Filled with a Large number of cards. The player who wins all the cards or has the most after a specified time limit wins their favorite sex play activity or fantasy.
Foreplay games provide an exciting and fun way to introduce sensually/sexually playful activities as a means to increase the desire and anticipation for Great Sex. Sometimes foreplay becomes a routine path to sex without giving it the proper time, creativity and energy it deserves. Foreplay games can help pace the stimulating activities. And, even though you know the erotic possibilities at stake in the game, not knowing exactly in what sequence or how often creates an element of delightful surprise. The competitive nature of the game combined with just the right amount of strategy helps build the sexual tension (for a more intense release later) and increase the excitement. Pick an erotic game that both of you will enjoy and have fun playing with or without sex involved.

By now, everyone should know that extended foreplay makes for more intense orgasms. Increased sensual intimacy also enhances your sense of closeness and connectedness with each other. And, good sex helps improve your body chemistry for innumerable health benefits. Loving, playful sex together is meant to be a pleasurable bonding experience that strengthens your relationship and enriches your lives. Adult play is essential – take the time to have fun, experience wonderful pleasures and be happy. Bring more joy into your world today.

For additional information and more adult game ideas, see our article Free Sex Games for Couples: Forfeits ForePlay.

We also wrote a book with more sexy bedroom games and lots of foreplay ideas to use with them. We’ve designed the book so you can use the hundreds of erotic activities in your own adult games too. It’s available on Amazon: Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas For Couples: Be Naughty Play Dirty Together. We hope you enjoy it and have lots of fun playing with the person you love. And, for straight, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, swingers or kinky couples, check out Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games. We also have a number of books (more coming) with ideas and templates for creating your own personalized sex games:

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May 24, 2012
Cunnilingus Tips for Better Oral Sex

Cunnilingus Concepts to Consider
When it comes to cunnilingus, many couples are tongue tied at the thought of discussing this most intimate act of loving, sensual pleasure. For a variety of reasons, some women even refuse to enjoy oral sex yet it may be the only way they can reach orgasm with a partner. Each and every woman is unique and her response to any stimulating activity can vary for a lot of reasons. Techniques that work one day may completely flop the next night. Unfortunately, many of the reasons that couples avoid oral sex comes down to poor technique. However there are some key ideas that will make oral sex a pleasure for both of you.

#1 Wait Until She’s Trembling With Desire
The most important thing to keep in mind for great oral sex is that she must be highly aroused before stimulating her clitoris. Even sexy thoughts anticipating your warm wet tongue can be enough to get her ready. But why not extend the pleasuring until she trembles with desire. Foreplay involving lots of stroking and kissing will always be appreciated. Soft and sensual or passionately urgent, sensational oral sex starts with erogenous zones other than the clitoris. Take time to tantalize her with light, tickling touches of your finger tips and then your tongue.

#2 Shave Silky Smooth & Sensually Soft
Men should shave and moisturize their face to avoid prickling or rasping against sensitive regions on her body. Sharp stubble burn is not the kind of heat you want to create. Also, although not everyone is into shaving their pubic region, trimming and shaping it can be very appealing. A shaved pussy can be very erotic and increases her sensitivity so that oral activities become even more exquisite.

#3 Fingers That Feel Fantastic
Clip and file finger nails short and smooth. Keep your finger tips soft so you can lightly stroke and caress her breasts, tummy, legs and inner thighs without scratching. Hand care is essential when using your fingers to stimulate her labia, vagina and especially her clitoris.

#4 Lip Service Reminder
Remember to keep your lips protected from drying out so they remain soft and supple. Chapped lips will stimulate her clitoris in a very bad way.

#5 Succulent & Tasty Treat
Use only specially designed flavoured lubes to make her an even more tasty treat. Avoid all kinds of sugary substances in or around her vagina since they promote very unpleasant yeast infections.

#6 Tongue Twisting Talent
Your tongue is a muscle that can be exercised. With practice, you can more finely control tongue movement and keep up a rhythmic motion for extended periods of pleasuring.

#7 Pussy Pleasuring Positions
When performing oral sex, ensure you’re in a comfortable position. Bending or kinking your neck in an awkward angle can make you stop a sensational oral sex session just when it’s getting good. Use pillows to adjust the height or angle of your bodies if required.

#8 Don’t Hold Your Breath
Remember to breath – smooth and regular. Running out of air can exhaust you fast when you really want slow and sensual. Hot lingering breaths on her clitoris can feel delightful too. Even if she’s teetering on the edge of orgasmic ecstasy, resist the urge to take a deep breath and go until she comes. It can still take a few minutes more.

#9 Men Can’t Read Minds
Your lover may not be able to explicitly detail what she needs but she will definitely know what feels good when you do it. This is the time for her to communicate with encouraging moans and verbal suggestions such as faster, to the left a little, lighter, harder and, of course, Don’t Stop! Pay attention to her body language and ask if you think you’re getting the signals wrong.

#10 Relax and Enjoy the Rush
Above all, relax and savour the sensations. Attempting to force an orgasm is a recipe for frustration. Some times you may need to slow down and start again but this can result in even more intense orgasms.

Cunnilingus Tips
Better Oral Sex for Women

With these tips you’ll be able to give her a good licking and enjoy deliciously juicy orgasms any time you have a craving for amazing oral sex. Be sure to ask your lover which cunnilingus techniques she enjoys most and how she wants you to go down on her. Every woman is unique in what she likes and how she likes it. Good communication is essential. Also encourage each other to experiment with creative oral sex play and learn how to have even more pleasure together.

When you are endowed with this secret carnal knowledge, you can savor your own juicy female orgasms tonight and every night you desire. More detailed, lick by lick ideas are available to stimulate your desire for oral ecstasy. Get a good licking and enjoy amazing sex right now. In Lick By Lick – How to Go Down on a Woman And Have Her Begging For More, you will learn the delicious art of pussy pleasuring. Male or female, learning how to creatively craft climaxes with cunnilingus is essential knowledge. Learn to master the techniques of oral orgasms and gain a new perspective on the pleasure possibilities at your fingertips. Either way, this e-book will provide invaluable tips to enhance your lovemaking skills.

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May 18, 2012