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Category: Foreplay Ideas

Frisky Foreplay Couples Game Available on iPhone/iPad

To help you spice up your relationship with more sexy foreplay ideas, we’ve converted one of our best selling sex games into an app for the iPhone/iPad. Frisky Foreplay is a hot dice game for intimate, loving couples. It challenges you to perform erotic activities based on what you roll with three dice. You play through an arousing sequence of pleasuring activities that intensify toward a wild, explosive climax. This sexy dice game encourages you to try various types and intensities of stimulation for a total sensual experience. Your fun comes in how well you perform the foreplay challenges and how far you’re willing to go. The game entices you and your lover to explore and push past your sexual comfort zones into new erotic territory. It’s a great way to add hundreds of delicious foreplay ideas to your bedroom play.

We’ve also priced it much lower than our original game so even more couples can play it together and enjoy each other in wonderfully new ways. It’s designed for the iPhone but works on the iPad too.

There are six levels of play that range from Warm and Loving to Wild, Nasty, Kinky and Taboo with lots of juicy foreplay ideas in between. You can set the foreplay intensity level at any time or allow the game to automatically increase it as you play.

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You can access all the Frisky Foreplay ideas randomly using the dice rolling interface. Just select the maximum intensity level you want and generate a foreplay activity to perform. Tap the button with your name to start the dice rolling and tap again to get a pleasuring idea to enjoy. In this random foreplay idea mode, there are no turn limits or game logic controlling how the activities are performed.

You can also use the random idea feature just to spark your erotic imagination or to spice up other games you like to play. For example, use the Frisky Foreplay dice when playing board games together. Perform the activities when certain game events occur like landing on specific spots or capturing pieces. Increase the level as your sex game heats up. You can even use the activities as forfeits during all kinds of other couples games that you like to play or watch together.

Get Frisky Foreplay on your iPhone today and be ready for some random sex anytime you want to play. For more information see Frisky Foreplay App Details. You’re sure to love it.

Note: We’ve recently updated the app to support gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and threesome activities. If you don’t have an Apple device, consider getting our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay book. It’s available on Kindle too. (see sidebar)

You may also be interested in our dirty truth or dare games for couples. There are gay and lesbian variations too.

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September 20, 2014
How to Get in The Mood With Romantic Foreplay
Lights, Sound, Action
Set the Mood for Hot Lovemaking!

Does your sex life involve quietly performing the same routine in the dark night after night? Rather than sex being just a physical act, there are some easy ways to add excitement to your sex play. The sensual experience of making love together can be greatly enhanced by engaging all your senses. Every one of your five senses contributes to your mood to some degree. By setting the scene for your romantic or sexy encounter you can create an atmosphere for loving, sensual pleasure. Relaxing or exciting, sights, sounds and scents have the power to stimulate your most potent sex organ – your mind. So, come out of the dark and experience sex in a whole new light.

You can use various types of lighting and sound to creatively enhance your love life. By mixing and matching these two ingredients, you can spice up your sex play with an erotic and emotional flavour. Even subtle visual and aural elements can turn a good sex session into an absolutely fantastic lovemaking experience.

When watching a movie together, consider how the lighting and sound sets the tone for the action. From sultry and steamy to pulse pounding intensity, combinations of lighting and sound can create a totally magical experience. You don’t need a big budget to produce erotically charged sex scenes. With a few ideas and a little imagination, you can easily make your lover feel like a star in your very own sex play. Rather than hiding yourselves quietly in the dark, discover each other and creatively direct sensational sex scenes together.

Mood Light

As mentioned, lighting affects our moods and therefore our ultimate enjoyment of sex. The type, color, intensity and design of the light source can excite or relax with many erotic variations in between. Both men and women are visual creatures and are aroused by sexy sights. In the right light, seeing each other in the throes of passion may be your best form of visual stimulation. Here are some mood lighting ideas:
- Candles: The flickering light of even a single candle can add an enchanting mystique to any room. Candles create a soft radiance that gives your bodies a warm glow. Subdued lighting also makes the surrounding décor feel cozy and private. Stained glass candle holders can enhance the effect even more.
- Fireplace: Making love in front of a blazing fire or the smoldering red embers afterwards can be a delightful, romantic experience. Even without a real one, you can recreate the sensual effect with a fireplace video and a portable heater. Or, get an Electric Fireplace Heater with Adjustable Flame Colors.
- Moon & Starlight: Although best far from city lights, making love outside in the star or moonlight can be an erotic adventure. Plan a special outing to coincide with a full moon.
- Sunset/Sunrise: A classic for romance, sensual intimacy during a sunrise or sunset can make them even more special.
- Strobe light: Imagine having wild sex in a pitch black room streaked with flashes of each other erotically frozen in your mind. The intensity of the flickering, stop motion style visual stimulation can be extremely thrilling. Bright colored lingerie adds to the effect.
- Flashlight: Use a small pen light to shine on areas of your body that you want stimulated. Turn it into a foreplay game. Start with a feather or artist brush, then touching, licking and sucking. Have your lover shine the flashlight on an erogenous zone that desires your focused attention.
- Rope & String Lights: Use decorative LED lights to add a special touch or fancy design for special occasions. Create a heart shape on the ceiling, border a mirror, showcase a collection of sex toys or design a futuristic role playing environment.
Try out different colored bulbs in regular light sockets (orange, green, blue, purple, black, flickering, etc.). A dimmer switch is important too. Also try lava lamps, fiber optic lights, spot lights, glow in the dark items, etc. Some lights can even be controlled with music to pulse with different colors and intensities. Experiment with various types of lighting to enhance your mood and sexual enjoyment. Use your creativity to explore the full erotic potential of mood light. There are so many wonderful possibilities to play with.

Aural Sex

Many people have a preference for aural stimulation. Music, for instance, can almost instantly trigger a change in mood. And, a sexy voice can be very erotic. Words and sounds can convey sensuality and lust. They can arouse desire and stimulate mental images or fantasies. For some people, sexy sounds are better than explicit visuals. Here are some ideas for aural stimulation:
- Talk Dirty: Phone sex is big business for a reason – it can be very erotic. A sensual voice can arouse fantasies with descriptive suggestions. Explore nasty slang or romantic euphemisms from books or movies. If you are a little shy, dabble in some phone sex with your lover to practice. Erotic stories read aloud and whispered descriptions of your desire are good aural treats.
- Art of the Moan: Both men and women enjoy lovers who moan as an expression of their passion. “Oohs” and “Aahs” combined with some dirty words of encouragement add to the mental thrill. Demonstrate your enthusiasm for each other with sounds of pleasure. Recorded sounds of sex or even background porn can also be arousing.
- Exotic Sounds: Use CDs with recorded sounds of nature (waves, rain, thunder, a gushing river, blowing wind, etc.) to transport yourselves to a pretend fantasy location. Depending on the type of fantasy or roleplaying game, special sound tracks could enhance the setting. Consider a dungeon scenario with special sound effects reminiscent of an inquisition or a crowd cheering your private sex show.
- Mood Music: Depending upon the type of mood you desire, try instrumental music to guide the rhythm and pace of your love making. Calming peaceful music will encourage slow and sensual touching, kissing and licking. Music with a heavy, pulsing beat will encourage intensely passionate sex. Try to find music that builds intensity smoothly to help guide your bodies to an ultimate climax.
- Erotic Dance: The right music is essential when you want to perform a good erotic dance or strip tease for your lover. Seductive and sultry music is great for enticingly slow movements. Faster paced, sexy rock/pop music is excellent for stimulating desire for wild, passionate sex. Slow dancing naked together is a very intimate, romantic and sensual activity that can be done as foreplay or after play.
- Oral Sex: When enjoying cunnilingus, play some instrumental music that starts soft and slowly builds intensity. Use the rhythm of the music to guide your tongue movements. Consider creating your own sound track with multiple songs that are relaxing yet arousing – 20 minutes of oral pleasuring should be about right.
- Sensory Deprivation: Try having your lover wear a blindfold and noise cancelling headphones. Without being able to see or hear you, build erotic excitement with unexpected, creative sensations. The anticipation of each touch will make all their erogenous zones buzz with excitement.
- Guided Fantasies: Erotic CDs with detailed fantasies are available that can be used during masturbation or as a means to arouse your desire before making love. With special sound effects and read by seductive voices, the audio programs can guide and stimulate your mental images with delicious results.
Try different sources and types of sound to help explore your aural erogenous zones. Experiment in the art of erotic talk and, with practice, you will become comfortable offering your own aural stimulation. There are books and programs available to help refine your aural skills.
- For guys, check out Learn Talking Dirty Secrets to seduce your lady.
- Women, get your guy hot and eager with The Language of Desire.
Learn to seduce each other and make love with words. Expressing yourselves in this way may also encourage you to have more intimate discussions and improve other aspects of your relationship.

Arousing Anticipation

As with big budget movies, creating desire starts long before the “release date”. Teaser videos and suggestive ads arouse interest and build excitement. You can stimulate a similar sense of anticipation for hot sex using love coupons. Here are a few sex coupons books we’ve designed to help you spice up your love life with even more exciting activities for couples.

As you can see, there are many ways to create an atmosphere for sensual pleasure and passionate sex. Mix and match the ideas and explore the full erotic potential of light and sound in your love play. Give out a few well timed sex coupons and stimulate even more desire.

Get in The Mood and …
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May 23, 2012
Talking Dirty Foreplay Tips for Couples
Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay
Use Aural Sex to Turn Each Other On

Ever wonder why phone sex is such a big business? Guys will spend many dollars a minute for hot, dirty talk from sultry women. And women swoon over a sexy voice and devour romance novels with descriptive scenes of seduction. Although most women and men tend to be shy expressing their erotic desires, we all love to hear a sexy voice focused on arousing us. Talking dirty can be extremely hot foreplay when you discover your special language of love.

Does the idea of dirty talk in the bedroom get you excited? Have you been asked to talk dirty while making love but are too shy to go for it? Or, do you want some hot erotic talk from your lover but they feel too inhibited to let go? You’re not alone. Discover how you can use the power of your voice to build exciting sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control. With a few techniques, you can learn how to use your voice as a powerful aural aphrodisiac.

Talking dirty is not just about using naughty or even filthy words. It is about the emotions and desires you want to convey and express. Depending upon the context, you may want to scream profanities in unbridled passion or whisper the same words in public as a flirtatious hint of your frisky intentions. Consider the sultry whisper of a seductress, the harsh command of a dominatrix or the ecstatic moans of a porn star. You can stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination with explicit and descriptive detail or seduce them with simple phrases spoken in a sexy tone.

To be effective, your erotic talk needs to seem natural to you so that you feel both comfortable and confident in what you say and how you say it. This comes from practice and by becoming more aware of what you both like. Some words and phrases may feel and sound awkward at first. Here are a few ways to practice talking dirty:
- When you are reading or watching a movie, keep track of sexy words used in romantic or arousing scenes. Make a list of erotic phrases you can use and, when alone, practice saying them out loud in a sexy voice. Get familiar with how the words sound and how they make you feel.
- Get yourself some erotic literature that includes descriptive terms for various body parts and sex activities. Include material your lover would read. Read short, steamy passages out loud and experiment with different ways to make them sound seductive as you speak them. Try whispering, lowering or raising your tone, using a throaty purr or even speaking with an accent.
- Write out a fantasy or short erotic story involving yourself and your lover. Weave in words and phrases you find arousing (from above). Read the story out loud to yourself using different types of voice to see which versions you find most arousing.
- Write out a list of sexual compliments (e.g. “I love the way you …”, “It feels so good when you …”) and desires (e.g. “I want your hot tongue …”, “Use your fingers to …”). Say them out loud the way you imagine using them. You may actually want to practice these while masturbating to feel how the words add to your arousal.
Once you feel confident with your aural skills, here are some ways to use erotic talk to spice up your sex life:
- While in a public situation, seductively whisper how you want to ravish your lover. Build the anticipation with naughty ideas that might just come true before you actually get home.
- Use erotically encouraging words to describe exactly what you want and need to reach an intense orgasm. Hearing your own words can be extremely exciting too.
- When internet dating, your first phone call is extremely important. A seductive voice and flirtatious words can stimulate an intense desire and sense of attraction for you.
- Engage in phone sex with your partner when you are apart (or even in separate rooms). Keep long distance relationships hot and passionate.
- Leave naughty voice messages that will make your lover rush home craving your touch.
- Record a sexy story or fantasy on your computer and download it to your lover’s MP3 player or smart phone. Since many play videos now, you can even use a webcam to record a sexy video of yourself telling the erotic story.
- Stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination while you are making love. With their eyes closed, take them into a fantasy with your voice.
- When engaging in soft bondage play using a blindfold, use your voice to tease and tantalize your submissive lover. Describe what you are going to do before you do it (or surprise them and do something total unexpected).
Remember that you are using dirty talk to excite both your self and your lover. However, keep in mind that, for some people, certain words have emotional triggers to bad memories. If you do hit a nerve, learn from each other and adapt. When you are open and honestly communicate about sex, you will both feel empowered and more willing to express your erotic desires. Learn to make love with words and you will be able to ignite sexual fireworks with hot mental foreplay.

Discover how you can use the power of your voice to build sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control. You will be amazed at the sexual pleasures you unleash when you unlock the secrets of talking dirty. Get started today and unlock the secret, exciting, sexual powers of your voice. Expressing yourselves with erotic talk will also encourage you to have more intimate discussions and improve other aspects of your relationship.
- For women, become an empowered verbal vixen and get the passionate sex you crave in your wildest fantasies. Get your guy hot and eager for you when you learn the Language of Desire.
- For guys, learn the language of love with a suave, sexy voice and women will swoon with lust for your sensual touch. Click on Learn Talking Dirty Secrets to seduce your lady and guide her sexual fantasies to a sheet clutching climax.
Learn the secrets of aural sex today and enjoy hot mental foreplay of the mind. Hot dirty talk in and out of the bedroom will spice up your relationship.

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Enjoy Talking Dirty Together!
May 21, 2012
Sexy Questions About Hot Love & Wild Sex

The most important part of sex actually comes before sex! Mental foreplay and emotional intimacy are essential for maintaining sexual desire. Discover how you can increase the passion in your love life and get more sex just by asking each other the right types of questions.

Here are some sexy questions to ask your partner to see what turns them on. Start an intimate conversation and explore new ways to spice up your sex life. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions available on our Sex Questions for Couples website. These have been selected to help you discover how sensually creative you and your lover can be.

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We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

What is the wildest location or setting that you had or would like to have sex?

Your bedroom is a comfortable place to make love. But there are so many other exciting locations to have passionate sex. Having wild and frisky fun in new locations can be extremely thrilling. See some of our ideas in Ideas for Exciting and Exotic Lovemaking Locations.

What sensual foreplay activities can you think of doing with flowers or chocolate?

Flowers and chocolate are nice romantic gifts any woman would love. But great foreplay and amazing sex is even better. Think of creative ways to use your romantic gifts for sensual pleasure.

What is one tip or technique you think would make oral sex even better for you?

Try out a few new tongue twisting techniques. Use your hands and mouth together to create new oral sensations. Spice up your oral sex with flavoured lube, a sex toy or even an ice cube.

What types of things can I do that would increase your desire to have even more sex?

When you know what arouses your partner and gets them in the mood, you’ll have the keys for keeping your sex life hot and passionate.

What regular household objects can you imagine using for sensual pleasure?

This fun sex question explores how sexually creative or kinky you can be. Let your imaginations run wild. Go through your home and see how many you can think up. For erotic inspiration, check out Fee Sex Toys for Couples to see our list.

What was the best adult game you’ve ever played and what did you like about it?

If you’re in a playful mood, a good sex game is an excellent way to make a love connection. Try out our Frisky Foreplay games listed in the sidebar for some wild fun in your bedroom.

What specific words or sounds enhance your passion and desire for sex?

Many people enjoy aural stimulation. A sexy voice can be very erotic. You can arouse feelings of sensuality and lust with just your words. Create mental images of your sexual fantasies as mental foreplay.

For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available)). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

Dirty Truth or Dare for Couples

To help spice up your relationship even more, we’ve made a few naughty truth or dare books availble on Amazon:

Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.

May 4, 2012
Sexy Questions About Creative Foreplay Ideas

Foreplay is an extremely important part of an intimate sexual relationship. But the type and quantity of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. To feel fully satisfied, an orgasm is not always enough. Quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun.

Here are some sexy questions to ask your partner. Start an intimate conversation and explore new ways to spice up your sex life. The following are just a few samples of the daily sex questions on our website. These have been selected to help you discover how sensually creative you and your lover can be.

Spice Up Your Sex Life
With Creative Foreplay Ideas

We hope you enjoyed this video. The list of questions with additional information is included below if you prefer to read the material.

What new types of foreplay would you enjoy experimenting with?

Even if sex is really good, new sensual pleasures before and after intercourse can enhance your erotic menu. Just like different appetizers and desserts can add new life to the same meal every night, a few new foreplay ideas can transform the intimacy in your love life.

Stranded together on an exotic island, what items would you wish for in a pleasure chest?

Imagine you’re stranded together on a fancy exotic island resort all alone. It’s fully stocked so you can live comfortably but there’s no phone, radio or internet. You have all the time in the world for intimate play and as much pleasure as you can handle. All you need to do is figure out what extra ingredients would help make sure the sexy fun never gets boring. For ideas, see our article Pleasure Chest for Adult Play.

What creatively sensual activities can you imagine doing to each other with an artist brush?

Try blindfolding your lover then use a soft brush to lightly tickle their body. Add some flavoured massage oil and delicately stroke and swirl around sensitive spots and become a sexual artist.

What form of erotic communication would you like to experiment with while we are apart?

When you’re away from each other for any length of time, it’s always nice to keep the home fires burning with desire. You could send text and instant messages throughout the day or even record and send voice, picture and video messages to each other. Like mental foreplay, you can flirt electronically to build anticipation for sex later. For longer periods away, experiment with phone sex or compose erotic fantasies in a letter. See our article Talking Dirty Foreplay Tips for Couples.

In what creative ways can you imagine using ice in your sex play?

Stroking your lover with an ice cube can be fun foreplay. Sucking on an ice cube before performing oral sex is another sensual treat. But let your imaginations run wild and think out of the ice box for this sex question. You’re sure to come up with some very cool lovemaking ideas to make sex even hotter. For example, put a glass dildo in ice water before using it on her hot pussy. Or try making an ice dildo for some great summer sex play. And for your sexy winter games, try having a quickie outside in the snow.

What forms of “mental foreplay” help you get in the mood for sex?

Your brain is your biggest sex organ. It controls your level or excitement and how you respond to arousing stimulation. With mental foreplay, you can get your brains in on the action. Think of ways to turn each other on without physically touching. Erotic sights, sounds, tastes and smells can all be used in various combinations to get your lover thinking about hot sex with you. See our article How to Get in The Mood With Romantic Foreplay for inspiration.

In what ways would you like to spice up foreplay so it’s more fun and lasts even longer?

Although most women desire more foreplay in their love life, they want a partner that enjoys it too. Foreplay should be fun, playful, sensual and pleasurable for everyone involved. Good foreplay is mentally and physically stimulating for both of you. Mutually enjoyed pleasures help create emotional bonds that are essential for many women to feel sexually fulfilled. These moments of sensual intimacy are crucial for maintaining a healthy sex life together.

Take the time to ask each other fun questions that get you both thinking and talking about all kinds of sexy new erotic ideas. You may just come up with a few new pleasure possibilities to try tonight.

For more fun and intimate conversation starters, visit our Love and Sex Questions For Couples blog.

Also check out our book: 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk available on Amazon (Lesbian version available)). Get closer by talking together more often and discover ways to enhance your relationship. We hope you enjoyed the video and the list of intimate questions to ask your partner.

Dirty Truth or Dare for Couples

To help spice up your relationship even more, we’ve made a few naughty truth or dare books availble on Amazon:

Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.

May 4, 2012