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Creative Sex for Your Health – Even More Reasons to Have Sex
When You Have Sex On Your Mind, Discover How to Stimulate Your Brain With Mental Foreplay and Erotic Games

Wow! It turns out great sex can actually improve your brain and keep you healthy. A great sex life is essential to the health of your relationship too. And, best of all, there are fun and creative ways you can improve both at the same time. Not only will you improve the quality of your love life, you’ll look and feel younger too.

Like many couples in a long term relationship, your sex life may have become routine or even boring. Everyone wants an exciting love life. One filled with erotic adventures, passionate pleasure, romantic intimacy and arousing foreplay. You want to feel the exhilaration of doing things out of the ordinary. You want to step outside your comfort zone and release your inhibitions just enough to give you that rush of naughty excitement. In fact, your brain craves these types of new and exciting experiences for a reason.

According to Lawrence C. Katz, Ph.D. & Manning Rubin in their book Keep Your Brain Alive: 83 Neurobic Exercises To Help Prevent Memory Loss And Increase Mental Fitness, sex is considered to be the ultimate neurobic work out:

“sex uses every one of our senses and, of course,
engages our emotional brain circuits as well”

When you engage all your senses (vision, touch, taste, smell and hearing) and your range of emotions in unusual, unexpected or novel combinations, you create new neural connections. You also stimulate production of brain nutrients essential for keeping your mind agile and healthy. Based on their findings, for a neurobic exercise to be effective, you must:
- Involve one or more of your senses in a novel context
- Become more aware by fully engaging your attention and emotion
- Change your routine activity or habit in a significant way
Keeping these guidelines in mind, try a few of the following ideas to enhance your relationship while improving your brain too. Unleash your sexual creativity and see how much naughty fun you can enjoy playing together.
- Read erotic stories or sexual fantasies out loud to each other – you activate different areas of your brain than those used when reading silently. Stimulate your erotic imagination together and maybe discover mutual fantasies. Get closer discussing new ideas and expressing your desires.
- Use washable markers or body paints to draw pictures or erotic designs on your partner. Use different styles of artist brushes, a variety of stroking techniques and multiple colors on their naked canvas. Write words for your lover to identify or use flavored oils and lick the design after you create it. Switch hands to make it even more challenging.
- Create a sexy or romantic atmosphere using different types or colors of lighting. Use a new fragrance or scent dispenser. Play music you would not normally listen too. Include new touch sensations using lingerie or bedding with fabrics that have unique textures. Sample new taste sensations like succulent fruits, rich chocolates or exotic drinks. Combine different sensory elements for something new every time you make love.
- Fully immerse yourselves in sexual roleplaying scenarios. To make your imaginary characters or situations come to life, use a fake accent, dress up in costumes, swap passive/assertive roles and even play in different locations. Also experiment with fetish or taboo activities to stimulate new areas of your body and mind. You may experience a few intense emotions as well.
- Experiment with new accessories and kinky sex toys. Try new foreplay techniques and exotic sex positions using the toys. Go shopping together to a variety of stores with the intent to find novel items to use in your love play. With this purpose in mind, you will see that regular items can be used to arouse your senses and enhance your lovemaking.
- Play new bedroom games for couples or turn a regular game into an erotic competition. Add a sexy reward or penalty to any game and experience new levels of exciting fun.
When you first met and were both wild & crazy in love, you probably dabbled with some of these activities. However, now you have a great reason to try them again. It’s never too late to spice up your relationship with creative new sex ideas. By enjoying great sex in novel new ways, you keep your body and brain healthy ensuring that your relationship thrives.

It’s good for your health to keep Sex On Your Mind. Your brain is your most important sex organ – keep it fit and healthy with creative sex that stimulates both your mind and body. For more ideas, you can download our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games with hundreds of foreplay ideas for each of you. It encourages you to playfully engage all your senses in pleasure.

Stimulate Your Brain and Body …
Enjoy Great Sex!

Note: If you’re over 40, your mind and body may be feeling the effects of age. However, your sex life isn’t doomed to deteriorate as you might be thinking. In fact, as we age, lovemaking can be even more sexually fulfilling. If we are open to explore new experiences, our sex lives, like a fine wine, can get better with age. Regardless of age, roleplay games will stimulate your minds while you’re stimulating each other.

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May 24, 2012
Lucky Lovemaking Lottery for Creative Sex Ideas
If your sex life could use some extra excitement, take a chance and enjoy some random sex. Use your lottery numbers to generate special combinations of sex play ideas. Each one is sure to make you a winner with your lover. Keep your sex life fresh and exciting with creative new lovemaking ideas anytime you want. Just fill in your numbers into the iLoveRandomSex app and tap Let’s Do This.

With this creative lovemaking app, you can make up your own rules and choose any numbers (1-49) you want in any order – gives you even more erotic possibilities. If you leave a number field blank, a random one will be generated for you. You can even just tap Feeling Lucky and get a full set of random numbers. See More Details about the app or click on the icon in the sidebar.

Our Lucky in Love Lottery is based loosely on the 649 lottery and generates sex and foreplay idea combinations based on your lottery numbers. Each of the six numbers correspond to a category or element of lovemaking with 49 ideas each. Enter your own numbers, the current winning numbers or make up new ones. So, even if you don’t win the cash in the lottery, you can always get Lucky in Love with our sexy suggestions. And if you do win the money, come back here and buy some pleasuring products to enjoy with the person you love.

The six different categories or sex play elements are described below:
- Sensual Accessories : Aesthetically pleasing or functional, the right accessory can make sex even more special. Use the specified type of item in some way to enhance your love play.
- Setting/Theme : Use this element to define the setting, location or theme for your playful encounter. Try to creatively integrate the idea into at least part of your sex session together
- Pleasuring Him : These ideas are intended to be foreplay activities for male pleasure performed by his female lover. The sequence or order it’s performed in your lovemaking is up to you. Various ideas are somewhat risque to help encourage you to push your boundaries together.
- Pleasuring Her : These ideas compliment the ones above and are intended to be foreplay activities for female pleasure performed by her male lover. The sequence or order it’s performed in your lovemaking is up to you. Spend time enjoying each other using the idea as foreplay, sexplay or after play.
- Love Play Ideas : This element includes a number of sex play activities that may or may not lead to orgasm. These are intended to be a more intense continuation of your foreplay games.
- Orgasmic Climax : The climax activities are intended to be done near the conclusion and includes a happy ending. Interchange the order of any activity to suite how you both feel at the time.
We hope you enjoy playing with these creative combinations of sex play ideas. Use these sexy suggestions to inspire your erotic imagination and increase your desire for great sex. Surprise your lover with wonderfully new ways to enjoy each other.

Enjoy Amazing Sex …
Make Pleasure a Priority!
May 10, 2012
Random Sex for a Change
Has your sex life become comfortable to the point of being mundane or boring? Do you need to spice it up before external temptations seem like the only way to get your blood flowing again? Maintaining the thrill, passion and excitement in your relationship requires change to engage your minds and bodies. Even subtle changes can make a regular activity seem extraordinary, spectacular and especially memorable. Change can be bit scary but it is inevitable and absolutely necessary. With a sense of adventure, an open mind and a desire for more fun, you can take control of change and experience loving pleasure in entirely new ways.

But, with all the pleasure possibilities available (ranging from simple sensual foreplay to advanced Kama Sutra positions to kinky fetishes), what change do you desire and how do you choose? And, how do you introduce new ideas to a partner that may resist venturing outside your current sexual comfort zone? Jumping out of the closet with a strap-on might be too much of a shock at first. In fact, for many couples, just the thought of discussing new sex ideas can be intimidating. However, assuming your lover is happy being content with so-so sex deprives you both. Chances are, random acts of sex could be just what you both need to create win-win sex changes.

Random Sex techniques can be used to add a creative flair to your lovemaking style. Keep your lover on their toes with anticipation not knowing what new sex play combinations you will come up with. Even changing the sequence or combination of your normal sex activities can add spice to your sex life. So enjoy some random sex changes and have Great Sex.

There are a number of fun ways to introduce random sex into your lovemaking:
- Foreplay Games: Most foreplay or sex games are designed to introduce a variety of sensual activities in different sequences. There is usually a game board with foreplay activities performed based on the roll of some dice. And many also come with one or more decks of cards with more detailed pleasuring instructions. Shuffling these erotic game cards randomizes the sequence and type of sensual stimulation you receive or perform. Set aside an adult game night at least once a month – play together to stay together. For game and activity ideas, check out our book Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas For Couples: Be Naughty Play Dirty Together.
- Forfeits Foreplay: Although skill is involved, most games and sports events include elements of chance. Any game or sport can be made more thrilling by introducing an intimate wager. Either participating or viewing with your lover, these games can be enhanced when playing for sexual forfeits or rewards. Choose a game or sport you are both interested in and agree on a sexual forfeit or reward system that suites it. Depending on the game, reward activities can be based on winning, a point spread, special objectives or when/if specific events occur. Designing the sexual forfeits together is foreplay too.
- Lucky in Love: Create a list of options related to a type of lovemaking activity you would like to experience. Your list could have as few as two ideas and as many as you can think of. When you have a variety of different foreplay or sexplay activities, use a randomizing technique to select one or more to enjoy. With a little imagination, you can use darts, dice, spinners, cards, coins, pool balls, etc. in creative ways to get lucky with the one you love.
By agreeing to play the game and adhere to the rules, even timid lovers will be encouraged to push their boundaries and overcome their sexual inhibitions (to some extent). Even if you stick to less adventurous sensual activities, randomizing your normal routine will create more interest and excitement. You may even discover a new sex sequence that will become your favorite.

Some other quickie, random sex idea selection mechanisms include:
- Write ideas on slips of paper and pick one from a bowl.
- Pick a random scrabble letter and come up with a sex idea starting with it.
- Use dirty word cards to make up a sentence describing an intimate idea.
- Obtain special dice with different number values or letters to match foreplay ideas. You can buy sex dice but it may be more fun to make up your own.
- Use sex position or XXX cards to choose an activity to experience.
- Flip a coin to choose from two possible options (oral sex vs intercourse, mutual masturbation vs anal sex, etc.).
- With a random number, calculate a page number in a sex book (fantasies, letters, Kama Sutra, sex manual, etc.) and perform the activity or position described.
- Spin a glass dildo or plastic vibrator in the middle of various toys or accessories – use what it points to.
- Use weekly lottery numbers to create a unique foreplay/sexplay sequence (see below for an iPhone app we created to generate random sex ideas for you).
When you do choose a new sex idea randomly, integrate it with other love play activities you are both comfortable with. You can even use these random techniques yourself to come up with creative new love play activities – keep your sex life fresh and your lover ecstatically satisfied. Changing your sex routine may not always improve things but stirring up the way you make love is bound to add more excitement. Take a chance and enjoy random sex tonight.

Want more Random Sex ideas?

Well … there’s an app for that!

Based on our love lottery concept, we created an app that lets you pick random combinations of different lovemaking ingredients to make up a night of amazing sex. There are 49 ideas in each of six categories that include accessories, setting, foreplay and sex play activities. For more detailed information about the application, take a look at our support page at: i Love Random Sex. It’s a simple application that can have amazing results for improving your love life with lots of creative sex ideas.

Discover for yourself how random acts of sex can enhance your lovemaking pleasures.

Stimulate Your Naughty Desires and …
Enjoy Even Better Sex!

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Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.
May 2, 2012